#as long as you're not appropriating smth that doesn't belong to you... pls know that it's ok for you to dress how you want. i promise.

[gateway-2000]

if you are fat and you feel like dressing/presenting a certain way or being part of a subculture like goth, emo, etc. is off limits to you, i really need you to know: it's not.

i spent most of my life thinking about how i wish i Could dress goth or emo, but because i was fat, it would be inherently embarrassing, and that i dont belong. i wore clothes that didnt draw attention while wishing i could look cooler.

recently i snapped and started intentionally seeking out clothes i WANT. I've gotten more compliments in my life stepping outside in my goth, emo, scene and forestpunk inspired looks than i ever did when i was wearing bland, baggy clothing.

you don't have to hide. you don't have to pretend to like bland fashion because it hides your body better. you're not inherently embarrassing. your body isn't something to be hidden. fat ppl being bold, choosing to make appearances and proudly taking up space does so much to help break down stigma and social barriers. and it's one hell of an act of courage, so give respect where respect is due.

#as long as you're not appropriating smth that doesn't belong to you... pls know that it's ok for you to dress how you want. i promise. #fatphobia tw #body image tw