#at which point i IMMEDIATELY backpedal+apologize ...& then Fail To Process the whole of their response afterwards. so.

[wabblebees]

PACK IT UP BOYS WE HAVE COMMITTED A SOCIAL BLUNDERRR

#AAAAAAAAH. #context: someone i know+/a friend (we're v friendly!! we're just not Close and i Dont Get Out Much so idk whats going on in their life rly) #(like. we're also 2 of the more visibly queer+disabled folks on campus so even tho we dont spend much time together we grok p well) #so i pass them in the hall and notice their hair is significantly shorter and im like !!! ''oh shit!! love the new look!!'' #and their face INSTANTLY FALLS #and i had fucking HEADPHONES ON so i couldnt HEAR THE WHOLE RESPONSE #but what i DID hear was ''oh... well... [something i dont catch] so im kinda still in mourning'' #at which point i IMMEDIATELY backpedal+apologize ...& then Fail To Process the whole of their response afterwards. so. #i have now spedwalked away and am hoping when i see them next i can dig myself out of this unwittingly dug hole #at which point i hope to find a cure for my chronic incapability to keep my damn foot out of it. jfc #anyone know where i could get that procedure done ?? i need it real fucken bad #aaaaaaa. #bee speaks