#but also about the queer subculture associations which give this neutral characteristic a sense of personality

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i know people on here are all really into that stuff but its still sort of strange that with all the talk of transgender and 'identity' no one talks about the constructed social identity of 'transgender' as seperate from gender and from the practical reality of being transgender

#i mean i guess theyre all socially contrusted to some extent #but some people both real life and internet and transgender and not dont even seperate the concept of gender and the concept of being trans #although even when they do and i admit lots of people do #theres often still this really socially pervasive social concept of transgender as seperate from 'non transgender' #in a social/culteral/personality sense #to be clear i dont mean socially transgender as 'socially transitioning' ie telling people both your gender and that youre transgender #like i mean as seperate from gender #the social connotations being transgender has and im mainly talking about like people who are accepting i dont know about that other shit #like the way completely nice well meaning people seem like they unknowlingly view (binary) transgender as some sort of third gender even #but also about the queer subculture associations which give this neutral characteristic a sense of personality #like its a club or hobby or personality and choice based subculture like bogans or surfers or punks or something #i mean i know in reality its a choice you can tell people or not tell people and most arent really like this anyway #in reality it doesnt actually have to be your identity #but some people on the internet get so insufferable about it #anyway do i have personal experience with this or is it all from observation or friends #not bloody saying #i mean either way there would be reasons i wouldnt want to #but luckily no one sees my posts anyway