#but if he's got a purely no sex-ace or low drive or whatever partner. he mirrors that too

[kxllerblond]

demisexual/romantic characters are my bread and butter because it's like they go from uninterested or confused or even disgusted by the concepts to like "oh ok. wait a minute. we're cooking. but just with this specific person i've connected to"

#clark who just uses sex as a tool and really doesnt care much for it as soon as he ends up with a partner: i mean ykno. actually....i might #fuck with fucking actually. #it depends on the partner too tbh he tends to mirror. like if he's got a hypersexual partner. bam he fuckin on the reg #but if he's got a purely no sex-ace or low drive or whatever partner. he mirrors that too #like sex is never really something he needs or seeks out #it just becomes something fun and enjoyable instead of a chore when he does it with someone he's connected with on a certain level #the romance side tho he will be down bad. he is insanely romantic (in his own way) once he's managed to actually #connect with someone to feel that way in the first place #anyway as a demi myself i think we're so funny because #it can just be like a light switch #and it's hilarious because it's so easy to gaslight urself you might not actually be on the ace spectrum but then you leave that situation #with that emotionally connected person or you try and imagine yourself out of it. and the switch flicks right back off lol #and you're like. Oh no yeah this is def not how the allos do it