#but nah since I’m not birthing them out of my own vagina I’m literally useless

[lucysweatslove]

I don’t know what I expected today, but I most definitely did not expect to be told, in Russian, that I deserve to die by strangulation bc I’m not “fulfilling my destiny” by choosing not to have kids.

#context this was on a YouTube comment directed at me out of idk how many similar comments #apparently being born with a uterus means your entire life’s purpose is to have children #was also called selfish for being child-free #the irony here is how much I love kids #I love my role as auntie and supporting those kids #I literally LOVED working with kids the most in all my time in health care #though I haven’t chosen a speciality I know I want to go into a specialty that allows me to work with kids at least some of the time #I may very well do rural FM and end up delivering a fair few babies #but nah since I’m not birthing them out of my own vagina I’m literally useless #was likely just an internet troll but they may also really believe what they’re saying #oh they also told me that my marriage / any partnership is pointless without kids #seems like they think the only differences bw married and just friends is money and sex #and ofc sex without reproduction is let fulfilling your destiny omfg #fun fact y’all a marriage type relationship can just be about support and connection that you want with only that one person! #ugh people suck