#crossing my personal bubble and i don't like being touched unless im comfortable with that person

[sparksssflytv]

I'm literally always ready to help people like i just don't know how to say no but this is like the first time ever i believe I'm able to stand up and not say yes (bec i didn't exactly say no either lol ) when someone told me to do something for them. and now this is where the issue is i was 'TOLD' not asked but TOLD to do someone's work. like i understand you need help but you should ask if I'm okay with it idk why i find it disrespectful and so so frustrating when someone just kind of gives you orders to do their work like UM ??

#i HATE being told what to do especially if i have to help someone #look im more than ready to go out of my way to help someone when they need help but you could ask me if im okay ofc i wouldn't say no😭 #i have been feeling like crap lately #about it #i feel so mean #for context: a classmate whi is new and needs help w studies (which is okay) has been super clingy and like straight up TELLING me to- #-do things for her instead of asking #and when i said i don't think ill be able to do it since I've been down w fever for the last 4 days and have my own classwork to catch up- #-with she was like do it so i can submit my work do it so i can submit it early #like im willing to help atleast sense my discomfort??? 😭 #also in class when i am clearly showing that i don't need anyone to sit next to me bec i can get very uncomfortable when someone's- #crossing my personal bubble and i don't like being touched unless im comfortable with that person #and im like clearly wanting to stay by myself and EVERYONE takes a hint BUT her 😭😭 #she forcefully makes me sit witj her 😭 #just UGH #and now i wanna cry bec i tried saying no for yhe first time and failed lmfao #im so pathetic