#he regularly tried to run away from his enabling of house from his selflessness for him

[warlenys]

wilson is sosososoooo crazy batshit interesting guy who cares so much he can only love someone if they need him. cares so much that he can’t truly love, he can only care. all of his relationships are about him caring so much and giving so much and sacrificing so much being so selfless that he ends up just resenting the other person. house is the only person he manages to be selfish with but however also house is the king of neediness he needs more than anyone and so wilson’s more selfless for house than he is for anyone else. and it’s posited that the reason their relationship doesn’t end is because house’s neediness is so deep and so much that it’ll never end but this isn’t true. in holding on wilson realises that house’s need for him and his selflessness for house aren’t products of his need to be needed but instead products of his love. his love for house. that’s what sets their relationship apart. house is the only person who needs wilson purely out of love and house is the only person who wilson loves purely out of love. wilson doesn’t love house because of his need to care, he cares for house because he loves him. he doesn’t want to fix house he just wants to fuck him. basically

#you need me and i don’t think that’s a bad thing anymore!!!!!!! #he regularly tried to run away from his enabling of house from his selflessness for him #he didn’t want to be needed by him because he didn’t want it to be like all his other failed relationships #but their relationship isn’t built on wilson’s need to be needed pathology it’s just built on love. horror #amber also half fits this but she didn’t stick around long enough to prove it completely lmao #house md #hilson #+