#i havent had a bpd episode since my break up either which is incredible

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when someone has a social life, goes to school, works, etc etc but still makes time for you, it's the best feeling in the fucking world

#like omg you actually care enough to make time for me??? eeeee #its important to me #hes texting me while he's playing dnd with his friends and I'm like WOW I am IMPORTANT TO YOU THST MAKSS MY HEART ACHE!!! #difjskdn #i havent had a bpd episode since my break up either which is incredible #the people in my life who would be the people I care enough about to trigger me actually respect my triggers 😅 #and its not a huge deal to them #im like ''hey btw whrn you do (this thing) it really triggers me and i have bpd so it puts me at risk for bad coping mechanisms #and my emotions are really high so I'd really like it if you could avoid doing this'' and theyre likr ''okay'' LMFAO #then i never have to deal with it again #i had to constantly deal witj it in my last relationship. id repeatedly address the trigger iver and over and theyd keep doing it anywyas #even tho i was harming myself and popping pills 24/7 #im so much happier now #a