#idk what is worse him being the literal psychological counselor of her prpblems and bitterness since he was a kid and atill trying to

[uchiha-sensei]

Sort of sad that my older brother has actual Elder Daughter syndrome and only noticied it in his late twenties/early thirties. He's also only healing from all my mother's baggage now.

#truly... #idk what is worse him being the literal psychological counselor of her prpblems and bitterness since he was a kid and atill trying to #salvage his relationship w her even when her selfishness affected his entire life and his relationships with others #or me who literally do nit know my mother bc she just neglect me my entire childhood and most of my teens years #only to try and 'be there' for me or try to care in my early twenties when I have already given up on her since I was probably like 13 #and that's not saying about the pressure she put in us both her controlling attitude towards both of us #and how she often diminished us even as children when we didnt do what she wanted #I just... I didn't expect this to be a mommy issues day but those posts on my dash really brought it up in me lmao