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millenialfanfictionaddiction · 2 years

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Hi mom 💕

I saw that you give advice, so I wanted to ask too bc I have a big love scenario at the moment...

So I have this crush I've liked since 2019, and we were classmates during that year. We were rlly close, and those in my class would often see us goofing around and doing idiotic stuff together. (And other people actually shipped us, and even our teacher went as far as to seat us together 😭) Everything went well until he stopped talking to me (I'd say for 3 months atleast) and eventually pandemic came and we stopped talking. We weren't classmates last year, but this year, we were. However we've only had minor interactions 🥲

So what I'm curious about is if he was interested in me or not.. Well from what I've experienced I feel like he lowkey did, but from the recent stuff? Not so much.

After all that's happened I've tried to move on (by crushing on atsumu and the rest of inarizaki specifically😔) but it never seems to work.. It's like he's put me in a trance which makes me stick to him mom 🥺

Did he like me or not, should I make a move, and how can I try to move on if it actually doesn't work out?

I'd appreciate any advice you'd give me ❤

Also have a free doodle of atsu doodl3 (◍•ᴗ•◍)

First off, that doodle is everything 😍😍😍😍 I'm seriously dying at Atsumu right now 🥺🥺 please as much as I love to bully him, deep down I adore him 🥰

Secondly, ok so boys and/or men are complicated creatures. I'm 33 and I have made zero sense of them. They say girls/women ate complicated yet here we are 🙄 N E WAYS I can see how /why you've been confused about the situation. I mean he went from talking to you to basically just kind of passive. I'm not saying he's playing mind games or being toxic with you but I can see why you are feeling the way you feel.

So I feel like a number of things could be going on.

1) he's very much interested in you and hea not sure how to proceed. It's possible that he might have seem you as a friend at one point but that evolved for him and now he's like uber confused about how to proceed. And sometimes when people don't know what to do, they will withdraw from you.

2) he could still see uoi as a friend but something changed for him. Maybe a big life event or even the Covid could have changed things. Alot of people went through a major depression because of Covid and perhaps it impacted him socially.

3) He just moved on from the friendship. Unfortunately this happens and it sucks. Like sometimes people change social groups rather quickly and they will choose to focus on that rather than other things. It's like having a best friend in high school then going to college and losing thay friendship.

I think your best course of action here would be to just try to rekindle a friendship with him. Send out feelers, ask how he is? Maybe what he's been up to? Just to see how receptive he is to you. You can tell alot about how someone feels by the way they react to you!

Also I know it's hard moving on from a crush. It's like something about them draws us there and we just can't forget about it. I still often think about my high school crush. At the same time, I realize that he maybe wasn't the one I was suppose to be with or the timing wasn't right. I think situations like this help us grow as our own individuals and help us to realize what we want for ourselves or in our partners.

Last, believe me, I've used man fictional men to help get over crushes. They can often be a safe place because in our minds, they wouldn't hurt us. I mean, in my thoughts, my fictional men are my ideal partners!

Phew 😅 I kind of went on a tangent there but I hope this helps in some way. Try not to put too much pressure on yourself, because in the end, you need to take care of yourself emotionally and mentally ❤

Xoxoxo

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