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#ik most ppl will continue usin itda way they use it n dats like fine i don even identify w those terms most times cuz of dat like.m jus mika
gurorori · 8 months
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no but like. it had genuinely never occured to my dumb (perisex, singlet) ass that transfem could literally just mean. trans+fem😭😭 goddddd i feel silly :(
OH!! tumblr did a thing where the only tag of yrs it shown on dat post was 'huh...' i jus reloaded n it now shows da full thing haha n_n
i wud never say it Inherently 2 do with bein inttrsex or a system, altho those factors Can complicate yr gender presentation & feelings towards it, a lot....! nawt 2 hog da blanket again but jus like i joked earlier bein inttrsex at least in my experience has been basically like puttin E & T togethr n watchin which one wins.... ik presentation is a conscious thing but really ive been both transmasc n transfem longterm cuz not only is it hard 2 consistently pass as Jus One, it also doesn feel appealing, cuz i am a girlboy afte rall :]
so like.. don say yr dum! the terms r definitely needed, but they r misappropriated on such a large scale its kinda hard 2 remind ppl dat naww transmasc=/=trans person who was afab, or even transmasc=/=trans man, how its most often used.. :/
jus like ya said, ye, trans[ ] jus means transitionin 2 an [ ] presentation. i *can* understan why ppl conflate tmasc w ALL!!! trans men/afab trans ppl & tfeem w ALLL!!!! tgirIs/amab trans ppl but it leaves out a huge amnt of ppl - gnc ppl come 2 mind (like when i kept forcin myself 2 identify w transmasculinity cuz well i id as a guy too so TransMasculine is my word rite? but it feels shitty cuz rn, we put in a Lotta effort 2 present n pass entirely feminine), nawt 2 mention it creates yet another binary, we love those (as 90% of ppl don even KNOW ab tneu or look at ya crazy when ya say it, cuz they cant visualise it. lawl)
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