#im talking about people assessing smut. private chat logs. shit like that. idk how to tell u that what ur freaking out to is very normal

[orkbutch]

Pet peeve: whenever people react to/present dirty talk out of context and are like "wtf, this is so weird this is so gross/cringe" ect. ect. Yeah. All dirty talk is cringe when you aren't fucking. Just the normal shit 90% of people say is cringe when you aren't horny and enjoying it in a sex way. Thats why smut is so hard to write, because you either need to make dirty talk that isn't cringe (almost impossible) or manage to create the space that puts dirty talk in context (less difficult, still can be hard, depends on how much the reader is willing to lean in). If you read almost any smut when you aren't ready to get horny about it, its going to be cringe as a rule. Some of the shit I see people react to as "bad smut" in books is just... normal dirty talk. Very normal dirty talk, not even weird or awkward. Do you fuck?? Its fine if you don't, it just seems like you're not qualified to be assessing this text idk

#i get if its people doing especially kinky dirty talk in non-horny public spaces and theres a kinda like. hey guys get a fuckin room. #im talking about people assessing smut. private chat logs. shit like that. idk how to tell u that what ur freaking out to is very normal #catholic behaviour honestly. grow up