#in which case fair. me not deep-diving into discourse and missing an important detail cause of that is a realistic scenario here lol

[satanfemme]

actually ...... can I confess something. (you say "yes", sympathetically). *sits down in the confession booth solemnly*. *there's moody lighting on us*. *in the distance, outside the church, dogs are howling*. btw don't try to explain anything to me I hate knowledge I love being uninformed and this is a rhetorical one-way communication channel so if u try to turn this into a discussion I will only hear static and also might kill you cause I'm in a mood. [gameplay tip: the mood is killing]. (you're suspicious, but say "yes, I understand" anyway. and our fates have been sealed). ok cool thanks. so honestly as someone who identifies as both a homosexual and bisexual man I don't really 'get' the whole "bi lesbian discourse"... ?

#(^ warning u now btw; if u try to contest my own identity then ur ableist + I’ll be rude lol. I can't help what my sexuality is 🙄) #sorryyy I only see the like.... Edges of that iceberg; but the posts from those edges are weird to me tbh. #like maybe thats just cause theyre out of context. that could be the case! #in which case fair. me not deep-diving into discourse and missing an important detail cause of that is a realistic scenario here lol #but I see a lot of binary gender views mixed in with like. treating sexuality labels like... these fully autonomous and untouching classes #ykwim? #binary gender views = ''lesbians can NEVER be attracted to men'' (.. sometimes people who are women... are also men.) #and it's ? just not something I really understand. especially with how unanimous my circles are with it.... #+ also like I said I'm literally both gay and bi so? I dont see why other people can't be? #idk imho if u want to do label discourse u should attack those people who try to exclude nonbinary people from ''bi'' #and/or invent new labels that are like ''bi but including nb people'' or ''gay but including nb people''. that shit's actually transphobic #(preemptive clarification: this is cause gay and bi both already include nb people & ''nb'' is not one (1) single gender identity) #lol. anyways I'm gonna go get high rn immediately cause I couldn't yesterday and I'm gonna watch a movie maybe too