hey Angie i love picking your brain and was wondering if you had thoughts on dad!dean or even Dean with Jr.? I saw you mention the idea of dean as a father in the tags of a post and it hasn't left my head š
Oh man, I feel like Iāve called him mommy more than dad šVery different vibe (horny. itās horny).
Unless this is about the āDean sleeping on the couchā gifset?
For serious: by s6ish, when heās calmed down from the frat-y fuckboy ease of s1, he acts A LOT like a typical white, blue collar upper midwest dad. Believes in hardwork, humanity (or at least Good People), beer, and rolling his eyes at fancy tech. If this wasnāt Supernatural heād have 3+ kids, a big belly, and a New Years resolution to go to the YMCA more often with his slightly anxious God-fearing wife.
I might be projecting. Just a little ;)
But anyway this IS Supernatural so letās talk about that.
Deanās Iconic interactions with kids includes:
Ben
Lucas (Dead in the Water)
Timmy (Bad Boys)
Bobby John
In the first three, YES Dean is pretty good with them. He empathizes and connects in a way that solves the case (Lucas/Timmy). However a key component here is that those boys remind him of him. Ben (despite being not related (cop out)) is a mini-Dean, and even the others are parallels. Would Dean be good with a kid who acted completely differently? One with disabilities, or a girl?
[I think the show answers this somewhat with Claire and Jack, but thatās.. beyond my wheelhouse sorry.] [Thereās also Emma, but.. she was woefully underexplored as a character before Sam killed her. An Amy/Benny plot device].Ā
In comfort/āgood daysā Dean is great. And heās certainly willing to make sacrifices. But... the other ākidā of Deanās is, well, Sam. He brought Sam to the hospital when he broke a bone, he fed and cared for him days on end, I mean come on. Thereās āwatch your sibling while we go on a dateā, āpick up X after schoolā and then thereās THAT.
Did Dean do a good job? Eh. He was a child himself. And what parent does it perfectly? etc. I think something thatās consistent though with his character is that heās 1. dramatic 2. flustered in conflict.Ā Ā
All that to say: heād be a mostly decent father. Say things in anger that he may or may not apologize for, that his kid(s) would have to internally forgive him for- that āyou hurt me, but family means loyalty/duty, so...ā. I donāt think heād rock a PFLAG sticker or handle his daughterās complaints about a sexist teacher well. But heās nurturing: he cleans! Nests! He changes diapers! In a room full of other people, they look toward Dean to keep a baby safe! So heād make the other moms at the neighborhood cookout jealous. Sam (bc letās be real, thatās the only real co-parent option, wincest or no) would have to put up with a LOT of āYouāre so lucky šā comments.
ā¬ļøI am very fond of semi retired SamDean, who are known by Lebanonās waitresses as a cute ākeep to themselvesā gay couple. I guess you can throw Dean Jr in there (hopefully named something else). I think the fact that so much of Spn is biology/bloodlines, it's a good thing that they'd have to adopt, magic, or at least be very intentional about how this child comes to be. Which is good, because if that baby looks just like Sam did, prepared or not Dean's getting like 12 new disorders. OR if we're not doing Wincest and Sam's married to some thin thing who popped out Dean Jr. and Dean's the uncle he's always wanted to be, then sure! I think the above stuff works for that, maybe even better bc he can hand the boy back when it gets Too Much. Never forget, it was Bobby John š„².
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