#is my fear of commitment/struggle with having fps making a big impact on how i experience and would like to experience relationships?

[ottitty]

Less of like. Pressure to move in and make plans and fuck and have lots of romance and have all things joint decisions and more like. I'd like to live my separate life w you in it but also kiss n cuddle n be there emotionally when needed sometimes.

#qpps #otter talks #is my fear of commitment/struggle with having fps making a big impact on how i experience and would like to experience relationships? #absolutely #but im ok with that and i'd rather Do That and define my own relationships w people #instead of being a really really shitty partner in a shitty relationship bc i feel the need to fit in with what society deems #'normal relationships' and an acceptable amnt of commitment #i once had someone tell me to my face they didnt trust and couldnt understand how i treat relationships #with the knowledge that it will likely end. with not looking for my 'forever person' and #also being ok with experiencing/acting on diff types of attraction w diff people (with consent ofc). #and thats fine! u dont have to get it! but im gonna do whats good for me instead of anxiously clinging to one person #. i really dont get how like. not going for 'relationship must last forever' or wanting to make huge life commitments #makes your relationship somehow less or you a shitty partner tho. so long as people both go at it with similar ideas in mind! #sorry. im tired n sick.