#it is very lonely! it's like suddenly the world has decided you're worthless on multiple accounts

[absurdlyalive]

people who pick apart people's accounts of their problems on the basis of semantics go outside challenge

#so annoyed about this essay on transandrophobia #listen like #you can argue with the idea of misandry it will still not make me feel any more welcome in a space that has told me repeatedly.. #.. that I can't possibly suffer at all as a man and so any violence done to me is fine #and if I disclose that I'm trans it's suddenly half backpedaling and infantlizing you insteas and half 'yeah whatever you're still shit' #and that was a “queer” space! not the world in general #if none of your problems matter because you're a man and men suck and you can't shake that off even in a queer space then #what the fuck are you supposed to do #it is very lonely! it's like suddenly the world has decided you're worthless on multiple accounts #and you can't complain or you get told that you're making shit up to get back at whoever #when you just. #fuckn #wanted to say that you've been feeling like people hate your guts since you started transitioning #p