#it would be easy to tell a story abt like. the ultimate unsustainability of expanding assigned pronouns but i think that would be a mistake

[aeide-thea]

god i'm so pleased to have finally found that ivan coyote post, you don't even know. like literally every time one of you guys has reblogged the ocean vuong thing i've been like i know i saw something else in that space once upon a time but fuck if i can find it!! so like. thoroughly pleased to finally have stumbled upon it although like. as i said in tags pretty sure it's an outdated snapshot of coyote's position bc i'm pretty sure they do use they pronouns now...

#it would be easy to tell a story abt like. the ultimate unsustainability of expanding assigned pronouns but i think that would be a mistake #like when ppl want to frame bisexuality as a stop along the way #people vary infinitely in terms of what stances and positionalities end up being rest stops for them vs their ultimate destination #and like. at some level *life* is a transient condition so. not a useful approach. meet people where they are now #which is always a truth even if their truth was different once or may be different in the future #anyway. don't mean 2 pontificate i'm really just like. delighted 2 have solved a thing that had been buggin me