#just. not vibing with ppl being like “i only find trans people/visible trans features attractive”

[heavenlydevil-95]

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#lately been thinking a lot about the. egg jokes and trans ppl are hotter and t4t is best kind of relationship thing i see #i mean its been on my mind for past few years bc ive been so so tired of people defining me by only my transess #(which i know is partly my own fault but yeah) #and its just like. i mean i find trans people attractive. and i find cis people attractive. #i dont want to define either as better or worse option than the other #on that note #just. not vibing with ppl being like “i only find trans people/visible trans features attractive” #i wouldnt want people finding me attractive only purely bc of my transness #while i can see the importance of celebrating trans beauty and changing the way ppl think men and women “should” look like #not all people who “look” trans want to and it can be very. dysphoria-inducing #anyway attraction is complicated ik and i dont want to blame vulnerable groups (especially when it comes to trans women) for only dating #other trans ppl if thats the safest option #just something im unpacking