#like forstable i know we all get those impulses on some level but if you as an adult are feeding that mindset and allowing it to keep you

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Perfectionism cringe more at 11

#listen i have felt this way for a while but was just reminded of it via a needle felt pikachu meme #and im not about to put this rant on there but i will put it in THESE tags but okay #so like idk but the mindset thats like 'i must be perfect at this thing the first time i try it or i will cry and quit immediately #like forstable i know we all get those impulses on some level but if you as an adult are feeding that mindset and allowing it to keep you #from trying new things #you need to quit it #bc ill tell you: it is a profoundly childish and entitled way to think. #like. of course i dont mean to kick you if you are actively trying to change this mindset. but if youre living that way #cmon man #you think You deserve to be on the same level as experts without a drop of sweat? #For what? #What makes you so special that you should be great at this without trying? #And throwing a little fit instead of taking the opportunity to learn something new? #baby. #like a child ripping up their drawing when it doesnt turn out right #it makes sense when ur a kid. ur a kid. #but as an adult its embarrassing #either decide you want to learn and prepare yourself to learn like a grown up #or decide you dont enjoy it enough to pursue it and dont #bc youre not entitled to skill. youll earn it like everyone else or youll live and die without it