#like how a lot of transmasculine 'fat positive activists' save for a few think that people (even if fat) having preferences for fat people

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i know there should be more yuri (because of this website being the yuri website and the woman prioritizer website, and i agree as a woman prioritizer), but...there should also be secret third thing, secret fourth thing, and secret fifth thing stuff too (n/n stuff, women x nonbinary stuff, and men x nonbinary stuff)

#nln #nlw #nlm #and no being a nonbinary person primarily attracted to other nonbinary people no matter the alignment #and also being a man or woman attracted to nonbinary people in a non-chaser-y way is not a fetish. like a lot of discourse shit has said #as in i've literally seen blog posts that have said this. #like that basically made us feel ashamed for being nonbinary and me specifically for being unlabeled #but primarily attracted to other nonbinary people and women and rarely men #and primarily nonbinary people and women in a particularly nonbinary way #literally most of the women/women adjacent people i'm primarily attracted to are some form of nonbinary/genderfluid/femgender unaligned #literally most of the women i'm attracted to are also nonbinary. and somehow to most mainstream lgbt people #who DON'T fall out of acceptable binaries (mainly people saying this abt people like me were trans men) are 'fetishistic' #like how a lot of transmasculine 'fat positive activists' save for a few think that people (even if fat) having preferences for fat people #is fetishistic somehow. even if the other person is fat and genuinely prefers other fat people in general #ANYWAY rant over. i'm tired of being mad at every single community treating me like scum