#like idk nonbinary is a. pretty fucking wide net. i personally dont feel like its 'if ur attracted to one of us ur attracted to ALL OF US'

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just bc of stuff going around i was suddenly reminded of one of the stupidest bits of bi discourse i saw, no idea if it was widespread at all or if it was just a few very loud and adamant ppl, where ppl were so angry about pan stuff again that they decided that the best way to defeat the evil pans was to make bisexuality The Most Inclusive and said that it was biphobic+nbphobic to define bi as ANYTHING BUT "attraction regardless of gender". no "attraction to multiple genders" thats NOT ALLOWED ANYMORE bc of course sexualities are basically just markers of How Inclusive You Are™ and not like. guidelines for what sorta ppl ur into right.

so it was like. okay im nonbinary and attracted to men a lot and women a good bit and other nonbinary ppl a lil less usually so im bi an-

"dont you mean you are attracted to people REGARDLESS OF GENDER? because that is the ONE TRUE DEFINITION OF BI"

Uhh. no gender is. definitely a factor, not in a full stop way or nothin its a lil wibbly but its not regardles-

"then you arent bi and its kinda biphobic and nbphobic that u are insinuating bi is anything but The Most Inclusive with full attraction equality for All Gender :/"

...okay then uh. what i am, a nonbinary person attracted to multiple genders, but not REGARDLESS of gender, supposed to call myself?

"idk just die ig"

#where they just pretend there is One Nonbinary #(the human nonbinary) #like idk nonbinary is a. pretty fucking wide net. i personally dont feel like its 'if ur attracted to one of us ur attracted to ALL OF US' #buzzy #anyway it was. so stupid. okay some ppl were dipshits and said shit like 'pan includes trans people and bi doesnt' #or the classic 'well bi means 2 so #discourse #and i dont even know how to words this but #it also felt. really reduction of nb shit too? #like 'OBVIOUSLY ur included in EVERY bi persons attraction bc u can either be sorted into Woman Lite or Man Lite :)' #that or the classic 'you just switched out the binary for a trinary #and some people saw that and instead of just dismissing those dipshits as dipshits they were like. the solution? #BEAT THEM AT INCLUSIVENESS THE ONLY ALLOWED DEFINITION OF BI IS EVERYONE EQUALLY NOW #and its just like #okay instead of rejecting the idea of it being a contest u made it Even More of a contest. cool nice. #idk maybe its just me but i prefer my sexuality label to be a loose idea of Who Im Into rather than a pissing contest. #christ what in the fuck happened to my tag order. i didnt use quotation marks. maybe tumblr is drunk? #idk whatevwr if anyone bothers to read this u can. maybe figure out what fuckin order this shit was supposed to be in. idk.