#like. if you take your amatonormativity gogles off these behaviours are easily platonic

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Yknow what. At some point i am getting tired of the "didnt realise they were dating" trope bc dating actually requires people to agree on it. So the only iteration of that trope i dont find more and more annoying is when they did agree to date but one of them was not fully present/misheard and miscommunication ensues

#ent talks #tbh this is also a lot of aro frustration bc the majority of things ppl say 'obviously friends dont do that lol' are like. #things i actually do with my friends #like. if you take your amatonormativity gogles off these behaviours are easily platonic #theres also only so many times one can get mistaken for dating ones friends before it gets #really fucking annoying and distressing #rant over i guess