#long ass rant but seriously the amt of shit i see makes me so upset because like if someone does that to someone with scary disorders

[ghostlysoupcan]

i dont get how some people especially neurodivergent people can look at people with personality disorders and be utterly ableist and sanist against them when 9/10 you have more in common with a pwASPD or NPD than you do a neurotypical just based on the fact that mental illness is literally buy one get twelve free in some cases

#like i have adhd. im autistic. aro. schizophrenic/psychotic in some way do you REALLY think id be on the side of a so called empath #the second i even breathe about not feeling a 'human' emotion theyd have me put away thinking apathy would turn me into a serial killer #i have way more in common with cluster B disorders than i ever will with the empaths that claim to be ~*mental health activists*~ #at least they claim to be mental health activists until its too messy or complicated and then out comes the slurs and bigotry #like id much rather hang out with a person who doesnt think thought crimes are real and that thinking abt the odd homicidal thought #makes you a twisted fucking cycle path or whatever #maybe its the aro in me and the similar experiences of seeing how bad we are dehumanized for some of us not feeling love #but it rankles like nothing else and if you do this please. reconsider and ask yourself why #if you create a stigma around the 'scary' disorders then how the hell is anyone meant to get help. feeling safe enough to get help. #cause these disorders are caused by abuse and if you really wanted people with a pd to get help you probably shouldnt make it harder. #and if we're going by therapy rules you cant armchair diagnose someone else anyways #sometimes an asshole is Just an asshole #long ass rant but seriously the amt of shit i see makes me so upset because like if someone does that to someone with scary disorders #how long is it gonna be till they start going after autism or adhd for similar traits. its already happened in some empath circles. #just ask yourself that because there is a lot more mental health overlap than you think #it already happens in most empath spaces #You cannot and i mean cannot decide if someone has bad intentions for you based on vibes. #you have to learn to trust people and if they break that trust they arent automatically a narc #just an asshole #and people hardly go around calling people a hyperactive abuser ghoul for them having adhd or being suspected of it