#mostly bc i think it's unproductive to say that abt yourself. i think labeling yourself as a mess makes it harder for u to get better

[pinejay]

thinking abt how much i hate martin for saying "oh jon's a complete mess" when melanie asked abt their relationship

#seriously?? how disrespectful and dismissive to your own partner #same thing with all their ''banter'' that just seems like more one sided arguing and martin putting jon down #i frankly don't care if this is jonny sims and alex's idea of a comfortable relationship #i personally don't care for it and think it just makes them sound like they fucking hate each other #it's the same thing with friendship like when someone gets too comfortable making fun of u that it's not funny anymore #and it really feels super one sided. we always have martin complaining abt jon's eccentricities but never the other way around #but anyway back to the original line. i just specifically hate it bc he's talking abt his mental health #and it's just not funny! i just don't think it's cool for anyone to say something like that!! #i would not be ok with any of my friends describing me like that #mostly bc i think it's unproductive to say that abt yourself. i think labeling yourself as a mess makes it harder for u to get better