#mostly because... thats quite literally how ive been groomed lol

[swallowtail-ageha]

Agree with the antis thinking that liking certain characters exposes you more to grooming but in the complete opposite way (antis have spent their time shunning so much fans of certain characters and making fandom spaces inhabitable for them to the point where some minor who likes that character will be more susceptible to grooming made by people who say "oh i like that character too! We're only us two against the world :)))"

#mostly because... thats quite literally how ive been groomed lol #maybe if the e villious fandom werent so hostile to ma fans i wouldntve ended up relying on tamara #as one of the few 'safe' adults #like ofc the whole thing is tamara and linda's fault and tamara and linda's fault alone but like- #they actively created the perfect ground for me and my friends grooming yknow?? #anyways. as you can see i have been thinking a lot about all of that in this last year #during the trip to greece i finally ended up talking about it with someone i know irl and honestly? that was fucking liberating