#nobody finds a big plain man attractive yuck please give us some lean elegant fellow instead

[thatscarletflycatcher]

"Greta Gerw*g captures so well the Experience of WomanhoodTM" and "we made Flynn Ryder tailored to the type of man women dream about" are the top two things capable of sending me in a rage spiral back to all the bullying I received in my school years for not conforming to bullshit standards of femininity and I think that says so much about me actually.

#This thought brought to you by me last night thinking about how both John Thornton and Roger Hamley are physically described in their books #and how the adaptations go #nobody finds a big plain man attractive yuck please give us some lean elegant fellow instead #And then I thought of the original concept of Bastion as a love interest for Rapunzel in Tangled #and look I really like Tangled #But I cannot stomach Flynn for like 95% of the movie #and I mourn Tangled with Bastion #and what I say of Thornton and Roger I mean as well of Friedrich Bhaer from Little Women #The other part is connected because my Weird Bad and WrongTM taste in men was one of the reasons why #other girls bullied me relentlessly #calling me the little boy and such #and they were the same type of self victimizing whiny girls who thought their lives were SO HARD and misunderstood #while they enjoyed a lot of social privilege and had a blast bullying and putting down girls like me and similar #anyways I need therapy you say