#or Judd and Tk (mostly) calling him out about his recklessness and stubborness during the intervention scene

[futures-tense]

Healthy communication doesn’t mean that you never miscommunicate, that things never get lost in translation. It just means that you can actually have meaningful conversations without it ending in an argument.

#Its the difference between TKxCarlos and GwenxOwen #tk and carlos have had their moments they’ve had arguments #but they were able to have meaningful conversations about why those situations came and they were able to explain how they were feeling #without invalidating the other #which is so important #then with Gwen and Owen #all of their meaningful conversations either ended in an argument or in sex #like gwen asked to put a label on their relationship so they were both clear about things and when owen made it awkward she said #’if every time i try to have a conversation we get three days of awkward then its gonna be less fun’ and owen said ‘I want it to be fun lets #make it fun’ and probably would have 100% started making out if TK hadn’t walked in #anytime anyone tries to have a meaningful conversation with Owen he makes it personal #‘im assuming tommy told you?’ ‘That you’re looking for a new captain? yeah-‘ #or Judd and Tk (mostly) calling him out about his recklessness and stubborness during the intervention scene #anyway those are just my thoughts