#ppl dont rly want to deal w their own bigotries they just want to have a Fun Fandom Experience at the expense of other ppl

[matoitech]

gay n bi men dont tend to rly talk abt this stuff  alot bcuz we know it wont go anywhere, the normal ppl who care r going to be conscious of it and act like normal fucking people and the ppl who dont just ignore it or may just say they care soo much and totally support us and dont want us to deal w these things!! while their actions def dont come off that way at all. esp when ppl just do not care enough to say anything bcuz we r just not worth saying anything or they r scared of being made fun of or harassed for saying they dont think like some homophobic joke is funny. but anyway it does wear on u its why a lot of us stay pretty far out of anything ‘fandom’ adjacent and just hang out w each other and other normal ppl on the sidelines lol. bunch of dudes in a circle passing images of galolio promare to each other and saying dont look outside man its weird as fuck out there

#like most of my prmare followers n mutuals r other gay n bi guys #u wouldnt know it from ppl making their 'isnt it soo funny n strange how only wlw like [media w good n normal m/m] lol so weird' jokes #like u guys have 2 stop fucking saying that cuz how is it not reading as embarrassing to admit that u dont know any of us #I KNOW U KNOW WE WATCH MOVIES N MAKE SHIT FOR IT. WE JUST DONT APPEAL TO /YOU/ SO U DONT LIKE IT #its not Relatable to u so youd rather get ur gayboys from ppl who match ur identity #that way u can avoid the discomfort of having to interact w real life gay guys #who will see how u talk abt characters like us #likeit just says more abt u than anything. it says a lot abt who ur choosing 2 engage with #if media w m/m is good n normal then we r There. it is on u if u r ignoring us #ppl dont rly want to deal w their own bigotries they just want to have a Fun Fandom Experience at the expense of other ppl #obligatory this is obv not saying everyone is like this this is more yeah this is def a major thing we have 2 deal with #even trying very hard to avoid Fandom Shit bcuz a lot of these ppl r Fandom Haters themselves