#sagging pants (that's the more superficial one lol)

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Stud (stəd) — A Black masculine identifying lesbian. Not all Black masculine identifying lesbians consider themselves studs, but all studs are most certainly Black. Stud is racially specific because it was created by Black lesbians to differentiate their experiences from their white counterparts and express gender roles developed within the Black community.

#Black lesbians #studs #stud #'express gender roles developed in the Black community' #that really hit the nail on the head of my issues lately #i feel so guilty to find I'm not very attracted to studs the older i get #because they do express Black gender roles they express Black male gender roles #and that often - not always - includes qualities i find so off putting #such as harsh disrespectful language #sagging pants (that's the more superficial one lol) #a need to be dominate in all areas of personal relationships #yes I'm attracted to women with masculine energy #but i think i need a certain kind of balance in that presentation #when we're getting into personality traits