#soemthing that she has repeatedly said 'oh yeah I'm fine I'm not anxious at all I'm fine I'm good' about and then gotten mad at me for not

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My mother will really just say things to me that hurt my feelings and then when I get upset about it she will say things like "you have absolutely no empathy for me"

#like.... girl.... you just said all this shit about you opinions on a person I haven't even talked to for a week and have never met inperson #i was like yeah I'm excited we're gonna meet up on Wednesday! and my mom will be like oh so they're 25 and live with there parents I hope #you aren't like that at all. I'm concerned. why does your therapist think you're so alike I hope you don't live here then. are they slow? #why does she think you're similar? i hope when you're 25 you don't live with me. #and it's like girl. i literally just said 'I am excited to go get snowcones with someone who might become a new friend' and you proceeded to #say oh ur therapist thinks ur similar? are they fucking stupid? are they dumb and stupid and live with their family still at 25? wow why #does your therapist think you're like that? are you slow? wow #like bro way to be fucking horrible to me when this is the first time I might have a friend after living here for over a year #but sure yeah I have no empathy for u when I tell you that you're making assumptions about someone you know nothing about BECUASE I KNOW #NOTHING ABOUT THEM #but yeah all my fault for telling you to stop saying shit like that #like just ugh why does she have to say shit at all about someone she barely knows #and she's always saying shit about my only real friend and about how she's going to drag me down or whatever as if she's not living out in #the real world holding a job for over a year making friends helping her family paying rent etc etc etc but yeah she's gonna drag me down #fuck off you don't know fucking anything about my friends or about how I want to live my life you just know how to judge people #ugh I'm mad at my mother and she made me overly anxious about something I was legitimately excited for just bc she was nervous about #soemthing that she has repeatedly said 'oh yeah I'm fine I'm not anxious at all I'm fine I'm good' about and then gotten mad at me for not #showing empathy like you fucking told me you were fine I didn't think there was anything to be empathetic about right now and then you went #off about how my new friend you've never met or spoken too was stupid and you talk like they're a bad influence on me and I haven't fucking #met them yet #🧍🏻