#super personal sel post sorry JAKSNJA

[seiwas]

the busier my friends and i have gotten with our lives the more i’m starting to understand what it means to choose and invest in the friendships you want to keep

#and it’s tough work!! investing time and effort and even money sometimes!! #bc to meet w a friend sometimes you have to grab some coffee or lunch or tickets to that movie #sometimes you have to wake up early for that run. sometimes you have to make that trip down to theirs #sometimes you have to make the conscious choice to message first. ask them how they are. listen and respond when they share #sometimes it’s supporting their endeavours no matter how small #because sometimes the little things to you are boulders to them. sometimes it’s the whole sky #and this isn’t to say that friendship is transactional or that it’s hassle in a bad way #it isn’t easy but it’s the kind if effort we don’t mind making; the kind of hassle that we’re willing to go through #sometimes it’s realising too that if you ask them of anything #they’ll answer in a heartbeat. that you have their support no matter the distance and time you’ve spent apart #idk 🥺 i’m emotional abt my friendships aksksj i love them loads and they’ve supported me tons this past year #and it’s fully sinking in now #it’s been so long since i felt so soft for my friends again #i feel like… i’m me again 🥺 #i talked so much again #super personal sel post sorry JAKSNJA