#the alternative is that we’re just undesirable objects of pity .

[starlyhta]

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#last thing i’ll say . :) #acting like disabled people can’t be fun or sexy or hot is actually . #ableist as fucking shit . #the alternative is that we’re just undesirable objects of pity . #oh does anyone find us desirable ? #it must be bc they’re a hero ! #they can deal with your pathetic little whiny cripple self . #you don’t deserve them ! #this sort of shit is why disabled people are . #frequently gaslit abt being abused . #esp if the partner isn’t disabled . #they’re a hero ! you’re not being abused you whiny brat ! #you’re lucky someone wants you ! #you’re lucky people want to even be your friend ! or deal with you at all ! #since we’re just objects of pity . #we’re just ~ ungrateful~ . #disabled ppl literally made the disabledandhot / disabledandsexy hashtag for this specific purpose lmao . #anyway also . :) abled characters in fantasy are boring as fuck . #especially when they’re being battered and wounded in battle constantly . #that too ! #fun fact part of my phd work is dipping into crip studies . #i am very smart about this . :) and am disabled . :) i promise . :)