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#the news has not shut up abt the Loneliness Epidemic since 2021
pegasusdrawnchariots
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the eternal question: is scheduling w friends as an adult That Hard or am I just bad at it
#4 different people have left me on read today; 1 cancelled our plans 4 hours before we were due to meet
#I've been sitting home alone for 2 days going insane. looking forward to One (1) coffee date & that fell through
#idk why I'm taking it so hard this time I'm usually fine!! but I find myself wishing I didn't have the day off I wish I did have work :(
#like it's tiring yeah but it beats sitting here not knowing what to do w myself
#& I'm working all weekend & only leaving the house to see the doctor. oh joy
#I've been productive ironing writing fixing the car. that's not the problem
#I had 4 social plans this month. that's it
#that's like seeing each friend once a month!! I can't keep this up!!
#is this the norm for adulthood? :(
#& on one level I don't want to bother people or be clingy
#but on another level I'm baffled that they don't get lonely too
#the news has not shut up abt the Loneliness Epidemic since 2021
#but if it's true why do so many people take so long to reply when I reach out? if they reply at all
#I'm not going anywhere w this. idk
#just one of those days
#everything so fuck everybody suck :(
#boomers got it right w the whole showing up unannounced at people's houses for a social call with a pound cake
#now I have to go through 5 layers of bureaucratic bullshit to see a friend
#assuming they don't cancel the day of ofc (((((:
#I just wanna be like hello knock knock I am here. tell me abt yr life today & listen to mine & eat this cake
#& the worst is when people are like 'I'm cancelling bc I'm tired xx'
#OK A) u knew we had these plans for two weeks
#but B) I'm tired too! I still love u ur still my friend! let us be tired together!
#'I won't be social today I'm tired' my love we could watch movies in silence we could knit we could ball yr socks. idc
#'I have to do the big shop today sorry' so do I!!! let us do the groceries together!!!
#every time I've pushed someone to come out when they felt depressed or to let me accompany them when they were doing chores
#they were like u know what I'm so glad u did this. thank u. this is way better than how I had planned this night to go
#& I'm like any time!! I love u!!
#& then it just happens all over again next time oh sorry I'm cancelling I'm busy I'm tired
#like did u forget what a nice time we had last time? what changed? :(
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