#they also called my spouse my personal assistant because i can't drive

[stonersolana]

my dad and mom just said they wanted me to be grateful for my dad's verbal abuse (and sometimes physical) because it "made me resilient". like??? excuse me???

yeah thank you for the toxic home environment you created when you already knew i was being bullied in school which made me feel unsafe everywhere i went to the point where i am actually living in a safe environment now but i don't feel safe, i never feel safe. thank you so much that i felt alone and that you both made me feel bad for not being able to come to either of you about anything. ah yes blame your kid for your failures as a parent, a tale as old as time 😡😒

#sunbun speaks #they also called my spouse my personal assistant because i can't drive #toxic and abusive situations don't create resilient kids #they just create traumatized ones #yes this is about my autism evaluation #she basically told the evaluator that i was basically a child #ah yes the infantilaztion of nerodivergent people - another tale as old as time 😒