#wanna Bigger Boobs? sure no problem here's your surgery date

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Yknow something that’s funny is, I’m a nonbinary lesbian, and I’m also one of those nonbinary people who very much prefer it when strangers who see me IRL can’t tell from first glance what I am or could be, or what I “should” be, and my breasts had been a source of significant physical distress and dysphoria, but once I got them removed? I actually became much less bothered by getting she/her’d.

I’m still nonbinary! And lean even more Butch than I did before - but I no longer feel nearly the amount of emotional baggage about my alignment with femininity or how mine, or lack thereof, is perceived.

Sometimes, I even roll with it and lie, if I think it’s a worthwhile troll. On two distinct occasions this past year, an old person who was clearly getting excited for an opportunity to be transphobic, was quick to come up to me, completely unprompted, and go “hehe, you know, you’re still a girl, no matter what you do to your body" and I was like “...yes? never said i wasn’t? what’s up” and then I got to see their brain short circuit before my very eye, as someone who wasn’t going to respect my lack of gender, is now having to mentally process the idea of a cis woman willingly removing her tits just because she genuinely likes it better that way. Like they can’t comprehend it. It’s so funny.

#sporadic warbling #there are in fact cis women who do this #even if much like trans people they have to fight tooth and nail to get it done #wanna Bigger Boobs? sure no problem here's your surgery date #wait you want the opposite of that? are you sure? are you Sure sure? are you SURRREE? (asks this for 6 months nonstop) #donut rebagel pls (the option to disable reblogging isn't showing up for me Again good and functional website)