#we’re gonna go buy a house anyways 🙄

[raeathnos]

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#nothing like having boomer parents who when you excitedly talk about how you’re going house hunting soon #do nothing but talk about how they’ll doubt you’ll be able to get a house #and I don’t mean that in a mortgage rates are high and house prices keep going up way #I mean it in a they think I’m a failure and don’t know what I’m doing and don’t know how to save money way #I wanna fucking scream 🙃 #they’re never going to see me as a competent person are they? #like I’m forever just going to be incapable of doing anything because they see me as not good enough #I can’t wait to prove them and the rest of my shitty family wrong #my cousins are the only ones helping and offering us advice #instead of all my older relatives who pretty much just like to go on about how none of us know what hard work is #or how they think for some reason we expected to just be given everything #I’m so fucking tired of it #my dad was giving me attitude about it #we have enough for 20% and then have a couple grand left over for emergencies #and he’s asking us why aren’t we putting down 30% #and I’m just over here like ???????? #cool keep not believing in us and giving us shitty advice #we’re gonna go buy a house anyways 🙄