the-galaxy-collector

[the-galaxy-collector]

this took me far too long to learn, so I’m going to tell you something that you need to internalise.

you don’t have to tell people anything you don’t want to tell them. it’s not rude or disrespectful to be private about things. you don’t owe anyone that information, so how could it be wrong to withhold it?

queer but don’t want to come out? don’t!

have a trauma disorder but don’t want to tell people what your trauma was? don’t!

disabled but don’t want to talk about it? that’s right, simply do not!

practice telling people to go away when they ask invasive questions.

the responses I’ve been using in particular are “that’s between me and my therapist/doctor”, and “why does it matter to you?”

you don’t need a “reason” to want to keep things to yourself. you don’t need to tell someone your entire history so that they can label you as “valid”.

don’t tell people information you don’t want to share.

#oh man #the people who need to hear this one

[the-galaxy-collector]

I like people who can take a joke and talk shit to me right back, that’s my love language

#yep

[the-galaxy-collector]

who am I to doubt her rly 

#don't want to chance it honestly

[the-galaxy-collector]

10 bucks says they bait sterek in the first trailer that drops

[the-galaxy-collector]

[the-galaxy-collector]

Fanfiction isn’t written for you, it’s shared with you.

[the-galaxy-collector]

[the-galaxy-collector]

Y’all, listen up. I have a problem with the Sterek scene, mainly the part where Derek says he carried Stiles out.

Not a minute before this, Stiles explained that the FBI had cornered the “feral unsub” and the mission was to bring Derek down.

And yet, according to Derek’s story, he picked up Stiles bridal style and carried him outside to safety.

And… no one stopped him?

Not one FBI agent saw the “feral unsub” grab this untrained intern, heave him up into his arms, and leave? I can clearly see more agents with guns in the background of the scene, running in the door they just came out of.

And. No one. Stopped them.

In conclusion, Derek’s story was also BS and they made up the whole story, they’ve actually been in touch this entire time and they didn’t want the pack to know so they lied about how Stiles “found” Derek.

[the-galaxy-collector]

Over the last few months I have been watching & studying #SoA in order to create a timeline for the show. If you'd like to check it out you can access it here:

[the-galaxy-collector]

"If, hypothetically speaking of course, there was a way for you to go back and fix it all would you do it?"

[the-galaxy-collector]

People will say “write what you know!” But I know so little

[the-galaxy-collector]

the moment we stopped viewing the LGBT community as a necessity for civil and social rights and started viewing it as a fun club where everyone within it needs a Very Specific Sexual Identity and Everyone Is Valid and there are Hard Boundaries between every sexuality and gender was the moment we were all fucked.

When we insist every identity under the LGBT umbrella is incredibly unique and different from every other identity, there is a deep artificial divide created between bi women + lesbians, bi men + gay men, etc. there’s so much biphobia in the community and i think its rlly due to people focusing way too hard on making sure Every Identity Feels Secure and not enough on solidarity.

you guys add stone butch blues to your reading lists but i don’t think any of you actually read it considering the way you’re treating bi women like they aren’t real wlw or transhet men like they can’t resonate with lesbian experiences. I’m sure this is a fucking newsflash for you, but we’re all the same to cishets. no single sexuality under the LGBT umbrella- yes, this ABSOLUTELY includes hets, as long as they’re trans- oppresses another. “appropriating other sexualities” just isn’t a thing unless you’re cishet.

The divide ppl insist is there is entirely made up and actually HELPS cishets, so can we please reduce these fake ass intracommunity conflicts and focus on real ones like transgender, specifically transfem, oppression at the hands of cisgays? or is that REAL issue too uncomfortable for you guys to handle lmao

[the-galaxy-collector]

[the-galaxy-collector]

Malcolm:

[the-galaxy-collector]

my parents were right about the internet being a corrupting influence actually. i can't see the word "peg" or any variations without my brain immediately going "haha like pegging lol"

[the-galaxy-collector]

[the-galaxy-collector]

hey if ur reading this and ur in a bad spot mentally or anything i hope u feel better soon and have a good day