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I actually have mixed feelings about this. On one hand, the idea that I would be controlling him even after I'm dead does have a kind of hot romantic feel to it. On the other hand, I also like to think that keeping him locked up is "our" thing, and that he should find something else after I'm gone.

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In one of the other blogs that I read, the woman wrote that she uses a dildo that's larger than her husband, and that every time he uses it on her, he makes it less likely that she will ever be satisfied by his real one. I can't even imagine how scary that must be to most men.

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Tom always made sure that I would enjoy him using his Vixskin cock. He figured out how to adjust the harness to make it feel more natural, kept it warm for me, and other things.

After about a year, I realized that it was so good that I could make love to him that way and not miss his caged one at all. And partway into the 2nd year, I realized that I had come to think of it as his "real" cock, and had a difficult time remembering how things used to feel when he was unlocked.

But I love how telling him that I've forgotten how he felt still makes him all hot and bothered. 😈

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So many men think that their wives have the capacity of porn stars and are always after bigger penises, as if having a large one is automatically more pleasurable. The fact is that a man with an average sized penis who is a good lover is a much better partner.

I am fortunate that my husband is a good lover who can read me, and who knows how to satisfy me.

And now I am even more fortunate that he wears a harness with a faux cock that feels amazing and does exactly what I want. 😉

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This is for MrsVanillaEdge.

First, thank you for this blog. Not the pictures, I mean the questions that you answer, and the little conversations you have with your husband. They have been really helpful for me. My husband approached me with this and he did EVERYTHING wrong. He went out and bought a cage, locked himself up, and gave me the keys ON OUR ANNIVERSARY!!! and THEN he went on to tell me all that stuff about how I can make him do more chores. I can not begin to tell you how upset I was! It took a while but I finally let him show me some sights and this blog.

I love that you and your husband are a normal couple, and have managed to use this to strengthen your marriage. Now that I have calmed down from all that, I do find the idea of keeping his "attention" kind of exciting. Not sure that I'd want it to be a permanent thing, but I love how you have made it work for you without it becoming weird. I will probably make my own account so I can ask you questions privately if that is okay with you.

I'm so sorry that you had to learn about locking your man up that way. I'm guessing that you must have seen one of my recent answers about that. Too many men live in some kind of fantasy world in their head. But I'm glad that you have had time to calm down and look at what he's really asking of you. And thank you for taking the time to let me know that we have helped you. Please feel free to drop me a note when you get your own account.

Many years ago when @tom--allen first told me about his dominatrix fantasies, I went online looking for some information, and I freaked out over what I saw. It turned out that he didn't want all that, but I had a hard time getting those images out of my head, and I could not see my husband doing those things. But I did get over it, and once in a while as a treat, I like to put on some sexy leather or tight clothes, and give him a little whipping with my riding crop. Just to remind him who's in charge. 😉

Anyway, I'm hoping that you will get a lot of satisfaction in having your husband make this up to you 😂. Tom and I have evolved into a wonderful relationship, and I would not trade this for anything.

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Love your blogs - very hot! Like many others I've found that chastity greatly increases my sexual desire, passion and focus on my wife's pleasure. But I'm curious how that works as a permanent thing. For me I feel like there's a sweet spot that's about a monthly release. The orgasm feels SO good that I would do ANYTHING to get back to it. Maybe 3 days post-orgasm I'm crazed with desire which of course gets more intense with teasing and pleasuring her for weeks until the next release date comes.

A lot of men have written to tell.me that they feel they need to be "rewarded" with an orgasm once in a while. I allow my husband to have an orgasm sometimes because I just enjoy giving him the same kind of pleasure that he gives to me. The difference is that I never unlock him, so he has to come in his cage. So it's not as if Tom is permanently denied orgasms, they're just different now. So, sometimes it's a reward for him, and sometimes it's just hpt for me to do that. I don't even know how long I've ever made him wait. I think it's about once a month, but he has said that I've made him wait over 2 months at times.

Maybe it's because he only comes in his cage, but he's always seems to bounce back by the next day. I've rarely seen him drop so much that he's not affectionate for me.

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For years, whenever Tom came in his cage he said it made him feel all weird. But by his 2nd year in permanent chastity, he noticed that it wasn't so bad anymore. By his 3rd year, though, I noticed how excited he would get. Now when I allow him to come, he seems to enjoy it as much as the old way. And I enjoy making him.