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Dear men,

Please understand, that you will never understand, and the more you try to understand the more you make it about you… and that’s the point.

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“Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and they will come forth, later, in uglier ways.”

— Sigmund Freud

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i don’t get jealous, i lose interest tbh.

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“I’d much rather have one great person to talk to every night than have several pointless conversations with temporary people.”

— Unknown

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It’s time to rewatch The L Word.

#one of my favs #even when the last seasons were awful #Jenny’s character really fell apart #it took over and ruined the show #and as always everything was rushed to wrap up the show #but everything before was amazing #always had the hots for bette but did not like her cheating

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i don't deserve someone better, i deserve a better you.

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You know what’s a cruel emotion… resentment. I feel that tops angry and sad. It’s a cancer in human emotions. It grows, it takes over, and it kills.

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Lanise Howard (African American, b. 1993) Contemplating Impermanence, 2020

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Stop changing the apology and change the behavior.

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i feel like it kinda went like

men: women are so mysterious. whats going on in their heads, why are they like that? well never understand what they go through. never understand what womanhood is, so weird

women: heres what we go through

men: … nah i still dont get it

some other dude: i feel like a woman

men: oh worm so womanhood is a feeling? i get it now :0

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Don’t let someone manipulate you into feeling bad that they put you in a position to leave them. Especially when you stayed so long and allowed them to treat you bad. Don’t let them convince you that what you had to do for yourself was being selfish and unsupportive of them. They did not want or need you, they just didn’t want to be lonely while they made themselves miserable. Don’t let them convince you that you weren’t there for them when they needed you the most when they took the most out of you for being there. Sometimes your support of being there enables them and they wont change because they don’t believe you will leave them. They don’t need you, they need themselves. They were making the choice to continue their bad habits and behavior while you were making the choice to stay and put up with it. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want help.

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Jenna Gribbon (American, 1978) - Me Looking at Her Looking at Me (2018)

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You are what you eat!

What if you aren’t eating?

You’re empty inside.

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Pet peeve: explaining something to someone who keeps interrupting you to ask a question that you are already answering but can’t because they keep interrupting you. Shut up, listen, let me explain.

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Well that’s hypocritical. Not surprised.

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Do you really need the person who hurt you, to tell you, “I hurt you and I’m sorry, and I feel awful that I did it”. It’s beautiful to get it but do you need it? Do you not know how painful the pain was when you experienced it? Do you need them to tell you how painful it was and give you permission to feel it? You don’t need it. The one who broke you cannot heal you. You have to heal you. You can’t expect the person who broke you into pieces to bring those pieces and say “I’m going to put you back together”. You can’t do that.. you can, but why would you choose to do that? Someone who had the power to destroy you and uses that power, why would you trust them with rebuilding you?

- Najwa Zebian