transfagholmes

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[jeering] you are so gay you would suck dick for a bus pass and then walk to the gay penis sucking convention

[suddenly really serious] and I respect that.

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there is no ethical consumption under trinity college dublin

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the "oh. oh." moment in fan fic but instead of a character realizing they're in love it's them discovering they have a specific kink at the worst possible moment

#well we've all been there

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having terrible graphic intrusive thoughts all by yourself gorgeous?

#you know it

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#monkey man

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sorry bro i lost focus and forgot where u begin and i end i hope nothing gay happened

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#been getting into teriyaki marinade lately

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UNWARRANTED?

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Dev Patel for The New York Times (ph: Justin J. Wee)

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its funny when people draw teenage characters with top surgery scars. guys that kid does NOT have the money for that shit. give him a miku binder

#alternatively. his ass was on blockers did he just get scars for the aesthetic.

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Tumblr's Poorest Little Meow Meow Contest

Remember, don't just vote for your fave! Consider who is the SCRUNCHIEST, MOST MISERABLE, and has made the WORST CHOICES.

#disco elysium #heritage post

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Dev Patel on the transgender representation, including the hijra community, in Monkey Man (2024).

#monkey man

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Cis people think trans people have this:

Deadname

Chosen name

But honestly we really have:

Name

Other name

Deadname

Business name

Old nickname only some people have rights to use

Online name

Extra special secret name you don’t get to know, unless… ;)

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no swimming sign at 虎跳峡hutiaoxia by 如果我叫桥子

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I really think one of the best things we can do as people is just get more comfortable with embarrassment. Yes, it's an unpleasant emotion, but we gotta learn to let it pass over us and move on. The longer I'm alive the more clear it is to me how much harm we do just because we're embarrassed. How many parents punish their kids needlessly and/or super severely just because the parent feels embarrassed by the child's harmless behavior? On a bigger stage, how much of fucked international intervention is started and especially continued because a nation doesn't want to be embarrassed? We have to recognize that being embarrassed does not entitle us to harm others. Alongside this though, we have an obligation to each other to lower the stakes of embarrassment. Offer grace to each other. Stop filming people in public. Stop making fun of harmless cringe.

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in bed absolutely fucked up on pillow and blanky