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im not back but i just wanted to log in and let you know compared to the fediverse tumblr is full of fucking squares. Everyone there is a trans queer furry with labels that would send tumblr into weeks of hell discourse. It's better over there. like so much better.

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ive decided tumblr sucks ass and im not coming back - catch me on fedi - [email protected] if you wanna come hang over there

If you wanna join fedi and dont know where to start, if you're techy then come join tech.lgbt and otherwise im lightly recommending kind.social

you can look for other places to join on https://fedi.garden/ if you wanna. They can all mostly talk to each other.

#happy new year its been fun but im over this place and i think im better without it

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(oh hey, a 'kill yourself' anon. so creative)

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cool so I'm now getting a stress response at activity notifs on here again so I'm probably gonna just fall off the face of the planet for a few days and try and have christmas without a side of rehashing trauma from 2017.

(not mad at anyone giving me normal notes right now but i poked the fucking hornets nest so there's horrible shit too)

aro people are queer

fuck you

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god i am always the FIRST to rally against the failures of just fighting for tolerance from straight cis ppl, but also we haven't even fucking reached tolerance yet.

we still need "We're Queer We're Here Get Used To It", because i don't know about you guys, but from what I'm seeing, they aren't fucking used to it.

we need that old school "we're your hairdressers, your teachers, your neighbors, your siblings, your friends" energy back ASAP. quietly queer isn't cutting it for me anymore. in your face dykes fag queer trans forever until i'm fucking dead.

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fucking try me cunt.

#yes this is about that fucking poll #can this fucking website please grow the fuck up #aro people are queer and you can die mad about it

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aromanticism is queer all by itself no matter what else you have going on end of story

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I feel like most of the aro posts on my blog are about how being aro doesn't inherently exclude you from the possibility of finding a partner— because I'm an aro who would quite like a partner someday— but I really want to emphasise that:

It is okay if you personally don't want a partner.

And this still applies if you're allosexual.

Some of the worst arophobia I have seen on this site has been from people who seem to think that it suddenly becomes okay and acceptable to slut-shame people so long as they're aromantic.

"Aromantic people are just straight men who want to have sex with women and then dump them!"

"If the 'a' includes aromantics then frat boys are lgbt!"

"Aromantic? Don't you mean sociopath?" (This is also, obviously, ableist, btw. Having a mental disorder doesn't preclude you from being a good person if you want to be.)

Look, it's not 1856. You shouldn't have to declare your undying love for somebody and get permission from a vicar before you're allowed to sleep with them. While sex can be a way for people to become closer as a couple or show their love for their partner, it can also just be like a fun activity that you do because you're horny. And while I feel like a lot of people on this site claim to agree with that statement, some of them really seem to have trouble understanding that it doesn't magically stop being true because you're aro.

Aros can have multiple partners.

Aros can have casual friends with benefits situations that aren't anywhere near as intense/committed as qprs.

Aros can have random hookups.

Whatever you do in bed, it is literally nobody's business except you and any people you currently happen to be in bed with. So long as everybody involved is consenting, being safe and having a good time, you're not doing anything wrong.

And this still applies if you are a heterosexual, cisgender man.

Your attraction is not inherently predatory, misogynistic or objectifying just because it isn't accompanied by romantic feelings. You don't owe people mushy feelings and a relationship just because you had sex with them. If you go into a sexual encounter with someone making it clear that it's just going to be about sex, and then they start getting upset with you for not providing more, then that's not your fault.

Don't feel obliged to do things that aren't natural to you just because alloros try and guilt you into it.

And for everyone else:

If your sex positivity doesn't include aromantics, then it's not true sex positivity.

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screamed when I saw this. Aro/ace pride :D

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Happy month of the gay everyone!

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It is time for the annual pride animals post 🦊😺🐺

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Little aro flag edit I did

[ID: An aromantic flag overlaid with white, capital letters saying "We were always here". / End ID]

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in b4 95% of all websites in june 2024 announce that "for security" they will only work with browsers that use manifest v3

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in an era smothered by machine learning and predictive language models and chatGPT i wondered how our veritable living web relic, cleverbot, was faring in 2023 going on 2024

never change cleverbot. never change

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I hate how acknowledging unfairness in the world is seen as "childish". Maybe children are right. I don't think you should be proud of the fact that you've become complacent with the state of your miserable existence and took on this loser "it is what it is" mentality. Things can be better.

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Hot Shit | Tom Cardy

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if i was a little kitty and you were a little kitty would you touch noses with me to say hi