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“You will never be truly happy if you keep holding onto things that make you sad.”

— Unknown

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How to Receive Love

It’s often very difficult for us to receive love. Perhaps our past has taught us that it’s never genuine, or love is not reliable, and won’t last in the end. If this is your experience, it’s understandable that trusting love is scary, and a step that’s hard to take. Below are some steps that can help you with this.

1. Believe people when they say they love you. Whether it be a partner, a good friend, or a family member, it is crucial that we accept those words as being true and genuine. If you’re continually doubting and pushing them away, then you’ll hamper them proving that they truly do love you.

2. Stop being terrified of loss. It’s normal and common to hold back from trusting love if your heart has been broken, or your love has been betrayed. Why would you want to experience that again! However, if you don’t take a chance on a person who seems true, you’ll spend your whole life running, and be captive to your fears. And there are people who are safe, and who will genuinely care. So trust your intuition, and push past all that fear.

3. Love yourself. For some this is the hardest step to take. But if you don’t love yourself then you cannot receive love – as deep down inside you don’t believe you deserve love. If this is true for you, take the time to figure out the reason why you feel you’re not worthy of being loved. Then, work on challenging and replacing this belief. (Perhaps with the help of a counsellor.)

4. Begin to take down the walls and to risk being vulnerable. Being authentic is scary as you feel so vulnerable. But you can take a few small steps, and can practice being real. Decide it doesn’t help you to be cynical and tough, and choose to be more open, and let someone get close.

5. Learn from young children, and the way they receive love. They expect to be loved, to be treated with respect, and to have their needs met when they reach out for support. They don’t fear rejection, or think that they’ll be hurt. For them, love is natural, it’s healthy and innate. So try to believe that the same is true for you – and love is enriching, rewarding, safe, and good.

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here it is. the first ever sunstone statue. (a zbrush render of it as the real thing is  right now being prepped for production)and yes i will announce preorder details and price as soon as i have them. sculpted by Steve Kiwis with me providing head sculpts. (small note there’s a ballgag on the ground but i forgot to add it’s polypaint and unhide it for this render) anyhow, moving to production plan is for a 12 inch statue, more details to come

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“I think there is a difference between loving the idea of someone and actually loving who they are.”

— Elizabeth Burke

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The truth is… I don’t know. If you can trust Boyd to have your back, but, while he has tried to kill me, and I have shot him, and imprisoned him, and I wouldn’t be surprised if our paths again crossed in such a manner, he has had my back on two occasions.

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And I wouldn’t change a thing. Except for the total carnage parts.

Obviously.

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Hela by Aaron Lopresti *

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“Don’t ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go.”

— Unknown

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Chocolate 2008

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If we can make it to the ground, we’ll take the next chance. And the next. On and on until we win… or the chances are spent. Rogue One: A Star Wars Story (2016), dir. Gareth Edwards

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Timothy Olyphant as Raylan Givens JUSTIFIED - 4X05 - “KIN”

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“So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out, and decide.”

— Meredith Grey

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What’s Hard About Depression

1. You feel as if you’re judged - and that you’re rarely understood.

2. You know that others love you – but you didn’t feel like they care.

3. You want to feel you’re wanted – but you feel you’re in the way.

4. You want to just be normal but you’re shrouded by despair.

5. You wish you could be happy – but you can’t stop feeling bad.

6. You want to make the effort – but you don’t have the energy.

7. You feel that things are hopeless - as they never seem to change.

8. You’ve heard that life gets better – but it’s so hard to get there!

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dc variant covers ★ pride

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“It’s okay to change your yes to a no. Yeses aren’t permanent. They’re something we choose again and again, each and every day. Something we have the right to recall and reconsider as soon as saying yes no longer feels conducive to our wellbeing and happiness. It doesn’t matter whether you said yes to a job, a date, a relationship, sex, a favor to a friend, a social endeavor, or a vow of silence — you don’t ever have to commit to something that forces you to compromise who you are and what feels right; especially if it’s something you agreed to under pressure, intimidation, or force. Changing your yes to a no might make people angry. It might hurt their feelings, cause them to see you as a flake, and result in lost connections. But if saying no means staying true to yourself, honoring your feelings, and making self-care a priority, it’s worth it. You are worth it. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.”

— Daniell Koepke

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SENSATIONAL WONDER WOMAN #3

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