bro why do people use you as an inside source to haydenās life ššš 40% of ur asks are dating speculations im crying
idk yāall HOW WOULD I KNOW lol Iām just a fan who happens to be good at writing fanfic
and itās a little creepy!! like I get why people are curious, I do, but just be at peace with what we get from him and leave him alone for the rest haha
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wait waitā¦ to that last anon, i actually am curious though because isnāt chris evens (captain america in marvel) married to some normal 26 year old and isnāt he haydenās age?
Iām going to be honest, this is the kind of fan discourse that makes me kind of uncomfortable. Because being a fan of someone is so fun, we get to enjoy their work etc. but to me we as fans donāt get access (and shouldnāt get access) to that personās personal life. like yes they date people but it feels a little stalkery to consider dating a celeb as anything other than fantasy.
thatās my take on it āļø
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would hayden ever return to his ex after them being broken up since 2017? like i know they co-parent and stuffā¦ but like, the last recent photo we got (4/20/2024) was of him and some guy from a moving company in LAā¦ would he actually move in with her again? just for briar? or would that risk confusing her considering theyāve always lived in separate homes for so many years? ā iād like to know that too as we have that pic of him and the moving dude!
I donāt think Hayden is moving in with Rachel and I donāt think theyāre back together. I mean, there is no way of knowing, but thatās my opinion, they could have just been moving in new furniture or something. It seems unlikely to me that they are back together.
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You are not damaged goods. You are a wonderful creative person who has a lot to offer. If anyone in your life is making you feel like you arenāt good enough to have what you want, then cut them out and make better friends. Get a dating app and go on some dates. There are people out there even for nerds like us (in fact, there are plenty of other nerds who also want a relationship haha). // that didnāt really answer the main question i was asking, but thanks anywaysā¦
in a way, say it was possibleā¦ would hayden ever go for someone as, complicated as me?
hey sorry I guess I didnāt know the primary question you were askingā¦I mean itās just not possible for most of us to date celebrities, so no, I donāt think itās possible for any of us to date Hayden.
do I think itās possible that someone very cool and hot and creative and awesome would go for you? absolutely, 100% ā¤ļø
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would hayden ever return to his ex after them being broken up since 2017? like i know they co-parent and stuffā¦ but like, the last recent photo we got (4/20/2024) was of him and some guy from a moving company in LAā¦ would he actually move in with her again? just for briar? or would that risk confusing her considering theyāve always lived in separate homes for so many years?
this is genuinely coming from someone that is delusional enough to think theyād ever have a chance with him, when i know heād never take a second glance at me. given that iām a victim of childhood trauma/neglect and am ādamaged goodsāand well i have nothing to offer or attached to my name, iām not rich or famous. iāve been a loner most of my life and never even been with anyone beforeā¦ yet for someone like hayden, my heart for some reason stays. no matter how painful it is. itās like that song by taylor swift: āi look in peopleās windowsā
itāll always be the āif onlyā for meā¦ iām currently in therapy by the way and have adamantly spoken about all this with my therapist as weird as this whole message is. iām just lost, in this crazy world ā knowing for a fact i will die alone. no kids of my own, no one at the wake. just me and my ghost.
iām sorry oli for this submissionā¦ iām keeping myself anonymous for reasons, but my mind has been spinning like the wash cycle on a washing machine. going round and round and i donāt have anyone to talk to about this. iām not in a parasocial relationship at allā¦ just someone thatās delusional to ever be considered as someone to ever have someone as extraordinary and loving as hayden.
i hope youāre doing well, love your page immensely and i mean no harm or anything with this submissionā¦ iām just praying youāll post it with an honest answer about all of this.
hi, first of all, Iām so sorry youāre struggling right now, it sounds like you are not in a good headspace, and I would absolutely encourage you to a) talk through all of this with your therapist (even stuff about Hayden!!) and b) please talk to some friends or family about how youāre feeling
second of all, there is absolutely nothing wrong with fantasizing about a celebrity! itās fun, and can be a good coping mechanism. crushes on celebrities are great. everyone on Tumblr here thinks so.
it sounds like, from my perspective, youāre kinda dissociating from your real life and living in fantasy land to make things easier. and as I said, thereās absolutely nothing wrong with that, as long as you donāt do it for too long. giving yourself a month or two of just fantasizing to get through is totally fine. but it sounds like you kind of want to be living more in reality, so I would sayā
get busy!! fill your time with offline, real life hobbies
try to make some new friends or talk to some new people!! get to know people at work or school that you havenāt talked to much
get outside and off your phone (literally always helps me)
You are not damaged goods. You are a wonderful creative person who has a lot to offer. If anyone in your life is making you feel like you arenāt good enough to have what you want, then cut them out and make better friends. Get a dating app and go on some dates. There are people out there even for nerds like us (in fact, there are plenty of other nerds who also want a relationship haha).
I have totally been in a place before of having obsession cycles about celebrities or books or whatever. and it is true, none of us are ever going to date Hayden, but thatās okay!! getting back into reality a bit will help you feel better. and liking celebrities is just a nice and fun hobbyāonly do it when itās fun.
I hope you feel better soon š
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Sorry to hear you are going through it Oli!! šš Solidarity sister I recently had a crush on someone who literally lives in my building (university) and I had to walk past his door like everyday and he has a gf so I would just like imagine them in there and yeahā¦it hurted
I would say my advice depends on why you canāt be with the person you like. Is it because they have a gf/bf? Are they not attracted to girls? Distance? Is there an actual reason?
If thereās not a real reason, then GO FOR IT. Tell this person you like them bc WHY NOT, what do you have to lose, shoot your shot!! Tell them you like them!!
If there is a real reason you canāt be with them, thenā¦what helped me was trying to fancy other people so that I could forget him. I also tried to think of all his rubbish qualities (his degree is business managementā¦ew?) The last thing I would say is get some ice cream or pudding and eat it all and cry and eventually after doing that enough times youāll feel better š š and you could also write more My Very Soul, that would make you feel betterā¦(Iām kidding! I am not manipulating your heartbreak for my own person gain!! butā¦.)
Much love Oli, anyone who doesnāt want to be with you has got to be a stupid prick ā¤ļø
this is so sweet, thank you š solidarity yes it sounds like a vaguely similar situation and yes there is an actual reason I canāt be with them (otherwise I promise I would tell them š¢) they are not a prick sadly it would probably be easier if they were
it is sad but Iāve just been like listening to sad songs and I still have homework before my semester ends itās just been hard to focus on it hahahahaha canāt wait to self destruct soon
Iām kidding, itāll be fine, Iām just sad rn š but I love you thank you for saying this
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helloooo if youre comfortable sharing do u know when u plan to update my very soul? i hope ur doing good im obsessed i just finished reading the latest chapter! hope ur having a good night/day <3 į( Õ į Õ )į
hi I have been seeing these comments and I promise I am not ignoring you, in fact I am deeply in love with you, and everyone who read/reads My Very Soul.
I love love love that story and I loved sharing it with all of you. I had no intention of stopping but it turns out the reality of grad school has made me feel super burnt out and overworked and there hasnāt been time for fanfic as a hobby š
I do hope to go back to it at some point (maybe Iāll have time over the summer?) but at this point Iām not sure when that will be. Iām sorry I donāt have a better answer for you. I wish we could all be unemployed and just play with stories all day!!! and thank you so much for caring about the story, truly, it still means the world. Iām sorry I canāt give you more right now.
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favourite straight people trope: cool interesting girl falls in love with the Devil. examples:
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me when I have one too many vodka sodas
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āSee, itās healing. It wasnāt so bad, right?ā
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omgggggg this trailer!!!! the younglings!!! the temple!!!!! so excited for The Acolyte I canāt even
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Rosario, Natasha, & Hayden at Awesome Con in Washington DC! ā¤ļøš
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I know there is a persistent rumour about him voicing shadow in sonic 3. At first it was debunked because it was not cast yet but people are insistant with it so maybe in the end he will get it? An article in the guardian also mentionned that he was offered the role of william the conqueror. I think he would be perfect for that one but I am not convinced he is good with an english accent.
personally I donāt really feel like his strength is voiceworkā¦like he has a pretty voice but heās a face/emotive actor, sound isnāt his primary tool
and, related, I agree with your concerns about a British accent š¬ however, he would look super hot in the old fashioned armor Iām sure they would costume him in if he were to play william the conqueror š¤·āāļø
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There's a lot of other articles talking about it. I really hope he does come back to acting since he's getting more love and recognition
thanks to all who responded!! I have had my head under a rock (if you want time to do fan things donāt do a phd program lol) this is such exciting news!!!!
what kind of movies do we think heāll be pursuing? does anyone believe the marvel rumors?
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