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Happy BDay Kacchan Bakugo! 💥

btw, this drawing is also available as a postcard A5 in my Ko-Fi Shop 👀✨

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Things To Ask Yourself When Questioning, "Am I Aplatonic?":

What is friendship to you?

What is friendship to the people around you?

How closely do those descriptions align?

Are you satisfied with any current friendships you have (separated from how you might feel about the people themselves)?

How were your past friendships?

Why do, did, or would you have friends?

Do you feel platonic attraction?

To what degree?

Do you know what platonic attraction feels like?

Do you see friendship as an important facet of your life, present or future?

Do you want friends?

What do you see as platonic?

Thinking about each of those things, how do they make you feel?

Is there anything you would want to change or adjust about your current friendships?

Small influx of people in the tag, wanted to contribute. Feel free to add on!

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And then when we can't think of how to start it, we create memes

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btw… important PSA: cutting off the mold on the surface of food does nothing. you can only see the spores on the surface, but mold itself has spread and grown roots into the food. by the time you can actually *see* the spores, that piece of food is completely full of it. youre still eating mold. 

many of which are poisonous and have been shown to cause cancer. youre not even supposed to sniff it, because that can get spores into your lungs. like if you look up the health and safety guidelines for mold they barely stop short of telling you to put on a hazmat suit. 

like produce is okay as long as you cut around it at least an inch, but cooked foods? you gonna die. stop eating mold people 

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lovecore this. cottagecore that. what about the reactor core its going to explode

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<|:3 <- wizard cat

<|:3 <- oh look he's aro!

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“if you’re working a full time job you should be able to afford to live on your own and have access to food and transportation” gonna be real with you brother. everyone deserves this. Not just people working 40 hrs a week

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survived the semester

ko-fi | inprnt

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Friendship bracelets.

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i like seeing aros who have totally different experiences with attraction and relationships <3 rejoice in a diversity of perspectives and a collaborative and respectful community

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"i use it/its pronouns" is actually a code word for "i am a really cool and epic person" so if u see someone w/ that or similar in its bio be sure to befriend it and be there for it and listen to it and hug it cuz it is so cool it deserves it!!!

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Rest in peace to the touch starved arospec and/or aspecs. You deserve more hugs.

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this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...

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fun fact:

HOT PEOPLE CAN BE AROMANTIC/ASEXUAL/AROACE TOO

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happy lesbian visibility week

#happy week lesbians!

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I guess it’s this kids birthday so I’m gonna remind you what character development can do to a mf

He deserves to be happy

#mha #MY BOY #he deserves to be happy