Go where you are treated best. Go where you are perceived how you want to be seen. Leverage your options. Be selective and have high standards for yourself (including, but not limited to, your own behavior, habits, and personal conduct). Always be asking yourself, “how does this benefit me? What do I get out of this? How do I get what I want from this situation?”
I love the idea of my partner being stronger than me. Easily pulling me into their lap, holding me down, and just maneuvering me however they feel like. Like I'm just a little doll for them.
Saying "no" is allowed, saying "no" is important, no matter how someone might react, it's not your job to make everyone happy and go along with every wish people have. Be ok with telling people no.