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[heavier-than-average]

How do you deal with all the comments? I have gained roughly 30 pounds and I am getting picked on quite relentlessly by some of my friends. I am finding it pretty daunting to be honest.

Hey Anon, if you are happy with your new size then that's all that matters, after the initial newness wears off your friends will comment less but just keep in kind increasing your weight generally comes with increased comments ;)

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[heavier-than-average]

hey there, been following your page for quite awhile and just want to say it is impressive what you have accomplished in just a few short years.

Hey Anon, thanks :)

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[heavier-than-average]

Dude I was reading through some of your OG posts from back in 2021 and man you were pretty sure 250 wasn't going to ever happen let along 300. Yet here we are and you have become the very 300+ fatty you were confident wouldn't happen. I am so happy you ended up being wrong.

https://www.tumblr.com/heavier-than-average/658975617140817920/is-300-a-realistic-goal-for-you-in-the-next-year?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/heavier-than-average/660530299602599936/what-is-your-goal-weight-and-current-weight?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/heavier-than-average/669690434750201856/damn-man-you-got-huge-i-cant-believe-how?source=share

https://www.tumblr.com/heavier-than-average/671022973900259328/since-250lbs-doesnt-seem-so-crazy-now-do-you?source=share

Hey Anon, wow you were doing some homework lol, and yeah I guess I was super naive back then

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[heavier-than-average]

how often do you find yourself polishing off a whole bag of snacks when you only intended to have a few?

Hey Anon, this is definitely something that happens, not necessarily with snacks but usually at meals when I set out anticipating leftovers I get surprised when I end up having none left.

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[heavier-than-average]

How has dating changed as a 300 plus pound guy compared to your sub 200 pound dating days?

Have you had an opportunity to go all the way at this size? I have to imagine if you have that had to be quite an experience for you.

(Don't feel obligated to answer. You can disregard this ask. Only answer if comfortable)

Hey Anon, dating hasn't changed all that much, never was a big dater prior to gaining weight so each new relationship is new experience, so no different really. As for other question the answer is yes and yes it was quite a new experience for sure.

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[heavier-than-average]

I feel you on being unable to control your appetite! Any tips you have please share! 🫠

Hey Anon, ha yeah the struggle can be real. Not sure I am best person to ask for tips though.

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[heavier-than-average]

Have you been dating at all since getting so big? Do you worry that you will struggle to find a partner that will be okay with how fat you are?

Hey Anon, I have gone on a handful of dates in the past year. And honestly I am not the least bit concerned :)

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[heavier-than-average]

how frustrating has it been for you to try to maintain but sort of struggle with it? did you ever imagine you would find it hard to manage your weight? from the sounds of what you say you are watching what you eat and working out but from my perspective it looks like you are fighting a losing battle.

Hey Anon, I wouldn't say it has been frustrating, but it certainly has been surprising because I never imagined how hard it would be. I feel solid about my gym efforts and consistency, but keeping my appetite in check could use some work; it just is so easy for me to pack away a bunch of food at one go.

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[heavier-than-average]

How can you look yourself in the mirror and not feel ashamed about what you did to yourself?

Hey Anon, I mean when I look in mirror I just see a happy fat guy looking back so no need for shame :)

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[heavier-than-average]

hey there do you think you would ever do a clean shave to see just how fat your face has become?

Hey Anon, will I ever clean shave? Probably at some point, but it won't be to see how fat my face has become. I can tell how fat it has become as it is now; my beard doesn't magically hide it, lol.

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[heavier-than-average]

It's been a hot minute someone has asked. I have to bet you got to have develop a bit of a waddle to your movements now?

Hey Anon, hmm, not sure what defines a waddle but I can attest that I do move differently, maybe more a lumber than a waddle?

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[heavier-than-average]

How many sit ups do you think you could do?

Hey Anon, umm honestly sitting up on the couch is a struggle as it is, I have doubts about meaningful situps lol

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[heavier-than-average]

I bet you’ll manage to maintain sooner or later 😚

You’ll get there in the end 😉

Something I was wandering is, if your hands have also broadened over the years?

Greetings from Austria 😊

Hey Anon, hello from a place far less scenic than Austria :) And yeah I think I will find my equilibrium on this all at some point. Also, yeah my hands have filled our some, I don't have full on sausage fingers but my old class ring and such no longer fit for example.

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[heavier-than-average]

How'd the gym routine going? I want to be big but strong still haha

Hey Anon, it is still going, I am making it at least a few times per week. I am sure if you stick to a set schedule you can manage to build/maintain strength

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[heavier-than-average]

Do you think you’ll go on a seasonal cut/bulk in the future? Lose weight in the summer to make summer activities easier and gain in the winter when you aren’t as active sort of thing

Hey cookiemachine, as much as I would like to believe I could manage that I honestly think I would excel with the bulk and struggle with the cut ha

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Hey Dude you aren't kidding, it is crazy how much you have changed. I can't wait for you to officially double your starting weight, 350 isn't all that far away bud 😉

Hey Anon, well I guess you could technically argue I have already doubled my weight, I mean technically at some point I weighed 150 :)

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[heavier-than-average]

Real talk, what are your least favorite things about being a big guy?

Hey Anon, well there are a few things for sure. It is disappointing I weigh too much for some stuff, for instance later this summer a group of us are going on vacation and I won't be able to join the kayak or zipline activities. The most frequent annoyance is navigating planes, aisles are not nearly wide enough, seats are tight, and some of the bathrooms on planes are way too small lol.

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