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paddedpumpkin 22 days
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Please do me a huge favor I鈥檓 looking for a serious in person relationship I鈥檓 nothing but loving and honest the only thing I鈥檝e ever wanted in this life was a Abdl relationship (both of us wearing diapers ) I try and try to find such but all I鈥檝e gotten are theifs that take all my money and leave me in tears for sick laughs I have a tbi traumatic brain injury I鈥檓 smart don鈥檛 get me wrong just i had a bad wreck back in schoool and since everyone has completely disappeared from any aspect in my life please I鈥檓 looking for a simple loving relationship I鈥檓 open to more ideas vary open minded do not message asking for money I don鈥檛 have a dime to my name
Hi 馃憢馃徏
I have a lot to say about this, but I will warn you it may come across as harsh, but please read the words for what they are rather than letting emotions stray you from them.
Why exactly do you want a relationship? What do you think that will do for you?
At this point, I can see how in need you are of reassuring love, support, and care. But what happens if that person leaves? Will you spiral and lose all hope?
If you are going out of your way to search for absolutely any sort of woman to be your girlfriend, I can tell you right now it's not going to end well. You need to have standards, have a LONG list of things you want out of a person, not just "anybody". All of this longing and want for a person should be directed inwards. You absolutely need to work on your mental state and mindset before you get into any relationship. You need to know who you are and what your beliefs are. Once that happens people will be drawn to your energy, but in this case, I'm sorry to say, but it's not doing you any good. You need to be strong for yourself. YOU be the person who saves you.
If you've read this far, I have another question for you. What if you never find her? What if you end up alone forever? Think of those questions, seriously, ponder them and ask yourself. Hell, I might end up alone forever, but you know what, I'm at peace with that, because anything outside of my own actions and reactions are outside of my control, and I can't even tell you how peaceful and content my life has been since I've thought in that way. You need to be ok with being alone, otherwise you will welcome in the wrong person.
Good luck
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paddedpumpkin 24 days
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Spankies are only necessary if you take your diaper off
ohhhhhh I see! .....I definitely won't be taking my diapy off.....super definitely!....maybe 馃きhehe
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paddedpumpkin 24 days
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Accidents on the lap>>>>
Youre a cutie pie!
wow after these kind messages, I'm thinking the spankies I got after it weren't so necessary! 馃槪馃槤馃き
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paddedpumpkin 24 days
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Which is your favorite diaper brand?
I love the bunny hops! Wish I had some, I'd make so much more content 馃槏
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paddedpumpkin 24 days
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You soaking yourself with no protection would honestly make my day as a daddy even if it鈥檚 on my lap. Back in dips for your adorable bottom immediately!
馃檲馃檲 but but but...what if a different kind of accident happened too 馃憖
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paddedpumpkin 25 days
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Wassup girl, how are you feeling today, and do you have any plans for the spring break this month..
I'm fantastic 馃榿 No plans for Spring break, I don't live in the US and I have to work haha but I will be going to the mountains with my folks for a few days soon so I'm really excited to see some beautiful nature 馃槏
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paddedpumpkin 25 days
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So I really wanna try wearing diapees someday!! Do you have any recommendations?
You haven't tried?! :o I'm probably bad with recommendations because I just buy whichever I can haha I can only get them from the pharmacies here so there aren't that many options. I have ordered the bunny hops before and I loved them so much!!
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paddedpumpkin 25 days
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Hey Xia
Did you ever had a accident in your pants without a diaper? and did you ever used your pants on purpose instead of a diaper or a toilet?
Sadly, I haven't, this would be true humiliation 馃檲, if I ever had a daddy again I'd make sure to have this lil fantasy become a reality hehe I have used my pants on purpose a few times, it was usually on my ex-daddy's lap 馃きit would get me so worked up hehe and it would be a fun surprise for him 馃槒
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paddedpumpkin 25 days
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Xia? Would you like to be friends?
I've responded to this one, you can check through the tag #askpp 馃構
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paddedpumpkin 26 days
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When daddy checks for leaks after he told you to tell him when you need to go pee pee, sigh 馃様 time for a spanking
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paddedpumpkin 27 days
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POV: You take your little baby out for dinner and don't tell her that her diapy is peaking out because her baby brain wouldn't understand anyways 馃ズ馃グ
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paddedpumpkin 30 days
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Hey Xia
How is the feeling when u use your diaper in front of you family, friends, radom people, at work, etc and did someone ever noticed that you had a diaper on and that you used it?
I would never wear diapers in front of my family (unless I were to experience some medical requirement, of course), for me, I simply can not combine the two. However, in front of friends or random people, I'd be happy to, it would actually give me a rush >< In the past (when I had a daddy) he would take me out on the bus or arcade/mall in a diaper, and it was a very thrilling experience, even though I was so paranoid that someone would see.
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paddedpumpkin 30 days
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For anyone curious, I'll be doing one diaper day/night a week, this way I'll be able to guarantee myself a chance to get back into little space and the comfort of diapys, at this point in time, I don't feel the need to do more, but this period will be like a self-care type of time馃構
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paddedpumpkin 30 days
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C-Can we be fwiends?
I'll be honest, I'm a very bad replier when it comes to online friends/conversations, with Q&A I can answer immediately and continue on with whatever it is I'm doing, but I don't want to let anyone down by appearing like a jerk for disappearing 馃槄
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paddedpumpkin 1 month
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Hello Xia,, i have a couple of questions
first... Would you date an incontinent person and
second... what age gap would you prefer you future hubby/daddy be?
Keep smiling and take care!
Hi 馃槃 I would definitely date an incontinent person, I mean, I wouldn't go out an seek it, but if the person I really like just so happens to be incontinent, I wouldn't fault them for it. No age gap for me would be ideal, I want a person who can learn from me just as much as I learn from them. But I wouldn't mind if they are a few years older than me, too, for instance, 1-4 years older would be fine too ^-^
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paddedpumpkin 1 month
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Baby stayed soggy for too long, can't wait to have a daddy again 馃ズ馃挆
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paddedpumpkin 1 month
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hey xia! You are literally my dream girl :D cute little baby who also loves to go to the gym 馃ぉ I would love to get to know you better and maybe we link up good 馃憖
That's so sweet to say 馃槉
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