#but if a person is going to so LOUDLY and BLANTANTLY say wrong things about what feminism is and purposefully not educate themselves

[autistic-daydreamer]

"Listen, I'm a feminist but [insert something about romance]"

No one cares. For FUCKS sake, no one cares. Let him save you, let him pay the check, let him buy you flowers, WHO CARES.

The only reason you believe you can't do those things as a feminist is because you were taught feminism wrong. Feminism is about equality and loving yourself and not judging people for harmless things. You can wear long skirts and bows in your hair and be a feminist. You can wear tank tops and crocs and be a feminist. You can wear suit pants and a button up and be a damn feminist. You can be a florist and be a feminist. You can be a scare actor and be a feminist. You can be a weightlifter and be a feminist. You can be a feminist and not pay the check. You can be a feminist and sleep around.

For fucks sake, feminism is about empowering EVERYONE, so believing that you can't do certain things "as a feminist" is so backwards.

#feminism is about EQUALITY #that should be what someone thinks when someone says feminism #thats why terfs arent feminists #bc they think so horridly about a group of people and still say they care about people #I'm not going to downright hate a person who has this thinking (the post not the prev tag) but I am going to educate #but if a person is going to so LOUDLY and BLANTANTLY say wrong things about what feminism is and purposefully not educate themselves #that is where the problem is #anyways these are my thinkity thoughts #a-d thoughts #ad(hd) thoughts #(also yes the “let him save you” was a purposeful remark abt a certain unreleased song but this post is not towards the artist specifically)