#friendshipfail

[meplusself]

pov: the experienced of being let down by a friend

In the unpredictable rollercoaster of life, there are few blows as disheartening as the experience of being let down by a friend. It's like navigating a maze, thinking you've found a reliable companion to guide you through the twists and turns, only to realize they've left you stranded at a dead end.

Picture this: the sun is shining, birds are chirping, and life is humming along as usual. You and your friend have shared laughter, secrets, and countless memories. There's an unspoken pact of loyalty, an understanding that no matter what, you've got each other's backs. But then, out of the blue, the script flips, and the trust you once took for granted crumbles like a sandcastle swept away by the tide.

The initial sting is a blend of disbelief and disappointment, a bitter cocktail that leaves a lump in your throat. You replay the events leading up to this moment, desperately searching for a clue, a sign that could have warned you of the impending betrayal. It's like sifting through the ashes of a burned friendship, trying to salvage something meaningful.

What makes it all the more bewildering is the contrast between past camaraderie and present betrayal. It's as if you were handed a script for a feel-good movie, only for it to take a dark and unexpected turn. You find yourself questioning the authenticity of every shared moment, wondering if the laughter was genuine or merely a façade.

There's a certain vulnerability in friendship, a willingness to expose your true self to someone you consider a kindred spirit. When that vulnerability is met with betrayal, it's akin to having your soul laid bare and then trampled upon. The disappointment is a heavy cloak that wraps around you, making every step feel like an uphill battle.

In the aftermath, you're left grappling with a whirlwind of emotions. Anger simmers beneath the surface, a fiery reminder of the breach of trust. Hurt, like a persistent ache, lingers in the corners of your heart. And woven through it all is a thread of sadness, mourning the loss of a connection you once held dear.

Yet, amidst the wreckage of shattered trust, there's an opportunity for growth. It's a harsh lesson in the impermanence of relationships and the fallibility of human bonds. As you pick up the pieces, you may discover a newfound strength, an ability to stand tall in the face of disappointment.

Life, with all its unpredictability, teaches us that people are flawed, including ourselves. It's a reminder to approach friendships with a blend of optimism and caution, understanding that while some companions may falter, others may surprise you with unwavering support. The experience of being let down by a friend is a chapter in the book of life, a chapter that, with time, fades into the background, making space for new connections and the resilience to weather whatever storms may come your way.

#Betrayal #Abandonment #Disloyalty #Unreliability #Flakiness #One-sided #Ghosting #Backstabbing #Phony #Fair-weather #backstabbed #badfriend #betrayal #fairweatherfriends #fakefriends #flakeyfriends #friendshipfail #lefthanging #notloyal #thoughtwewerecloser #Dealing with betrayal from a friend #When your friend ghosts you #Coping with an unreliable friend #Recovering from being backstabbed #Disloyal friends #My friend turned her back on me #Feeling abandoned by close friends #So-called friend wasn't there for me #Thought she was my bestie but she flaked #Learning your friend was just using you

[fabiansbattlesheet]

i am being ignored by five separate people right now

#go aryeh and your friendshipfail powers

[theuntamedshipper]

I am that type of a person you only see as a friend when you're asked what I am to you. I am that type of a person you see as someone who is trying to be part of your world. I am that type of a person whom you do not even know existed until someone mentions my name to you. I am that type of a person you only appreciated when I did something good for you. Lastly, I am that type of a person who is trying to forget you when you yourself does not remember me.

#sadness #loneliness #notpartofyoulife #friendshipfail

[mar-zelle]

I haven’t been here to support you in a way that you deserve to be supported. Make it clever by saying #friendshipfail?

But the raw truth is that I suck sometimes.

[megreason]

People suck. Like literally suck so much. You think they care and everything but second you retreat the slightest bit they don't want to know why, they don't care. They only want you when it's conscientious to them not when you really needed them. They hurt your feelings, they make you mad and sad but they don't care. Most of the time they don't even realise they did something wrong, that just makes me mad. I guess the truth is we've drifted or changed and I'm just not sure how much longer I can do this, any of it.

#friendshipfails #I don'thavewords

[smolgayflowerchild]

I see you liking and rebloging my stuff ANSWER MY DAMN TEXTS

Like seriously >_>

#friendshipfail #bruh

[bigsexy5251]

Ever had that moment when you realized you had everything you wanted, yet didn't know it. Then messed it all up only to realize it was everything you wanted.

#thissucks #lifesucks #relationshipmistake #friendshipfail #ineedatimemachine #ineedadayoff #fromlife

[ehojetatudocinza-blog]

Estou cansada de tanto teatro mal feito.Estou cansada de sobrar e ser a ultima a ser escolhida.Eu não preciso das suas migalhas e da sua mediocridade. Eu sou acostumada a minha solidão e serei feliz com ela.

Fantasy.is.over

#tayna #friendshipfail

[friendshipfails]

So first of all....you even asking me this is disrespecting me.

Secondly. how does one conversation for days? I MUST KNOW.

#okstupid #okcreeper #okcupid #okfail #friendshipfail

[friendshipfails]

Elle here.

Message I just received...it was way too long to screen shot. 

"Hey What's up? I'm Farrell and I couldn't help but notice your profile and I thought to myself what a girl and I figured why not give it a try and message her. After seeing your profile I think you're insanely beautiful and I would love nothing more than to get to know you and maybe eventually hang out and see where it goes. However I know there is an age difference between us, but let me just tell you something about that. Age is really just a number and it could cause you to miss out on a great time with a great guy and you honestly never know till you try. I understand I'm not old enough to go to a bar, but honestly going to have a drink isn't everything. I may be 19, but I have the mindset of someone older and I can literary blow your mind and sorry if that sounds corny. My values, how I was raised and basically how I am make me more mature then some boys. You probably want a man and not a boy and that's why you probably want someone older, however I am a man and I can promise you that. Meet me and see for yourself and besides why would I be taking the time and putting so much thought into this deep message. I am a nice guy looking for that special someone and am hoping it can turn into a long term relationship. I don't play games and I'm all for commitments, if there's something special there. To be quite honest I've never been in a real relationship, but I am looking for something real. And on top of that I'm built on chivalry which you don't see anymore and I put my friends and family first because I love helping people and being there when someone needs me. We're all human and one in the same and what's life without risks and taking chances. Just like I said in my message, to me its only a number. We may be in two different stages of life, yes but look at it like this in addition to what I already said. Yes your looking for a long term relationship and you probably think I'm not. However I am looking for the same kind of relationship you are. I'm not into one night stands and I want something that if its right can last long term. I'm looking for a strong legitimate relationship. I have the mentality of someone older, everything about me. The only thing that makes me young are my looks and age, but I'm older where it counts. My brain, personality, manners, people skills everything. And plus I'm very mature. I'm driven and strive to be the best I can be and all top of everything I have a career plan set and I have my life together. I am studying Criminal Justice because I love helping people and I see how bad the world is and want to help it one step at a time and one person at a time. I either want to be a police officer or go into a federal agency. I drive, have a steady part time job, have my school plans in order and I'm good with my finances. So you see age and looks, yeah I'm 19, but everything else I'm not and if you truly look hard enough and give me the fair chance that everybody in life deserves you'll see its worth your while and will end the search for the right person that we'll both searching for. So hopefully after reading this you can see what kind of person I am and what I'm looking for and to despite my age, I'm more mature then I look or portray. So if you want something real, are looking for what could become a relationship, and are tired of not finding the right guy, then I say we should give it a go and see where it leads. After all neither of us have anything to lose and we could really benefit from it. And sorry if this was a long message, but I like to get straight down to the point and introduce myself. So I look forward to hearing from you and I look forward to what happens next."

I'm 26.....and not looking for a relationship....over kill much?

AND FOR THE LOVE OF GOD SEPARATE YOUR PARAGRAPHS.

#okcupid #okstupid #okcreeper #tryingtohard #friendshipfail

[friendshipfails]

Ari's Corner: Craigslist Roommate Ads

My roommate and I are currently on the market for some new people to fill our empty apartment space, as we have two rooms now available...so, wanting to post in an open forum where lots of people could see it and respond (so that we'd have lots of options for potential roomies), I turned to Craigslist. And oh, BOY do we have options!! After posting the details of our apartment/what we were looking for, I asked the applicants to write the name of their favorite Disney movie as the SUBJECT of their email (so I could tell if it was spam/who was actually paying attention). These are just a FEW of the 75+ responses I received. Oh, what a decision this will be for roommate selection! xD

Applicant #1:

"Hi gud afternone, I am interest in da room for rent, I have a releble job, I am 23 yearold I do not have any children that I own,, essept for my exes I have buncha childrens but those kids there mom dont lemme see them caus she's a *flying banana* (censored for appropriate facebook content :D) but truts me I be a gud roomat, Ill keep evrybody away make sure they dont mess with u. U can call me G. Ok thnx babe hmu thru text message or fone or w/e sory if I dont anser if I had to get a new number again or somthing I do that a lot 610-***-****."

Applicant #2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 (He sent me nine different emails. Each one more desperate than the next. NINE!!!):

"hi i saw ur ad."

"sounds like a solid place- found anyone yet?"

"i was wondering if u saw the two emails i sent u this morning...please respond?"

"id like to hear back immediately please, i emailed u over 2 hours ago..."

"if this is how u are going to be with your roommates i dont need this sheep. (censored for facebook content). Flying sheep. No one ever emails me back."

"i just thought of something if you dont check your emails often at all maybe you havent even seen all my messages yet so instead maybe if you can call me heres my number." (x 3)

Applicant #11:

"Hi, my name is Thad, and I am recently divorced and I'm 59 years old. It sounds like your apartment would be the perfect fit for me. When can I move in?"

Applicant #12:

"Hi, I'm John. I really don't feel comfortable doing this, it's really a huge stress for me, but I have no other options...you see, the thing is, I've never lived away from home before. That may seem a little surprising being that I'm 35, but I've just never wanted to leave. I still have my own little room I grew up in and my mom assures me she'll keep it set up for me for when I come and visit, but she said I really need my own space and I need to move forward with my own life. I guess she's right, but it's so hard to move on, and then there's the whole providing for myself now that I'll be on my own and everything. A few questions for you: 1) Does the cost of rent include meals? I don't know how to cook at all. 2) Are there laundry facilities in the apartment or close by? If not, I don't think my mom would mind too much if I just washed my things at our house on the weekends when I come to visit. I mean, I'd only be living a mile or so down the road."

#craigslist #roommatefail #friendshipfail