#i have been listening to a specific song about gently drifing away from your lover

[quenthel]

I think its super hard not to draw conclusions and attempt to come to some (wrong) greater understanding when something bad happens to you or when things don’t work out. Like just because you did not get into a good and healthy relationship filled with love even well into your twenties that does not necessarily mean that something is wrong with you. Just because past lovers did not take the time to understand you and care for you that does not mean that nobody ever will. Its like what James Baldwin talks about in “Nothing Personal” the future love of your life might live on the other side of the planet so all you can hope for is that life will find a way to cross your paths. There is a lot of potential in life for that sort of stuff.

#quenthel special #i have been listening to a specific song about gently drifing away from your lover #but instead of there being hate its all about wishing them well #may you find the partner of your wild heart the one who will make happy the way i once did #walk the path of love and keep to the laws of life in peace and wisdom #im translating the lyrics but like those lines spoke to me #im trying not to be too hard on my ex while she did hurt me i also probably hurt her.... thats just the way it is when two people dont match #and im trying to keep my current crush(es) in my heart too eventho im pretty convinced they love other people...but its fine